Have just started accepting donations through them.Now I would not recommend doing this ,only well known ,well reviewed providers.I love it when traveling ,it reduces the time wasters no show/no call.If a new guy wants to see me without references ,will need a deposit.Love the idea.Thank god for Green Dot & money pack.I used PayPal before ,was great.Till they found out was used for adult entertainment froze & permanently closed my account.
In the past, under certain circumstances, I have offered a small (30-50 dollars) deposit to certain providers in order to "grease the wheels" of the verification process and keep it minimally invasive for me. Also, to let her know that I'm serious about keeping my appointment with her.
I pay using a MoneyPak, so there's no paper trail to me (or to her, I suppose). I was recently talking with a provider on an extended date, and she mentioned that my doing so helped her confirm that I wasn't LE and that her biggest concern doing verifications was an LE check.
Three questions:
Do other guys also do this (offer small deposits) ?
Does this actually confirm that I'm not LE (cause I'm not) ?
How do other providers feel about this ?
... stated in other threads, I NEVER give a lady a deposit regardless of her reasons. There are some providers that demand 50% of the session fee up front. Thanks, but no thanks!!
I'd move onto other ladies who don't require deposits.
All the provider have to do is check my recent reviews and contact those ladies in the reviews. It's the same thing as me giving the provider 2 references. The last few providers that I have seen did that to screen me and I passed their screening process.
To answer your question about you not being LE, I seriously doubt that giving the deposit is going to prove that you are not LE. Heck, even the LE can do the same thing that you just did with that MoneyPak... with ZERO paper trail to go back to the LE.
If the provider is that paranoid about you being LE, I recommend that you move onto another provider.
Don't let your dick do the thinking for you.
Serpius
I pay using a MoneyPak, so there's no paper trail to me (or to her, I suppose). I was recently talking with a provider on an extended date, and she mentioned that my doing so helped her confirm that I wasn't LE and that her biggest concern doing verifications was an LE check.
Three questions:
Do other guys also do this (offer small deposits) ?
Does this actually confirm that I'm not LE (cause I'm not) ?
How do other providers feel about this ?
While your point is well taken, no provider ever even requested a deposit from me; and if they had, I would move-on to someone else very quickly.
In terms of the amount that I "offered" a provider, it was generally in the 10% range; and I did so to make her more comfortable with my minimal screening info. Have done so 7 times over the last 2 years and haven't been burned "yet". I don't have a long list of reviews, so I'm at a disadvantage there.
I was curious about whether LE would take a step like this in order to go after a specific provider (or providers). Seems they'd be throwing a lot of cash away on the possibility of actually busting a provider, with no actual record of where it went. I'm told that those MoneyPak cards are virtually untraceable.
Sorry if I wasn't more clear about the details upfront.
but leaves you open to being ripped off. The general rule is cash, face to face. Exceptions: An overnight or extended date where she must blank out a large part of her schedule or where she has expenses such as flying to meet you. Eventually you'll get scammed. Once she has money but has provided no service... there's nothing to stop her from becoming too busy or hard to reach.
for the reasons offered above, but there are times that they make sense, especially if a gal is traveling a long ways to spend time with you.
Nevertheless, MoneyPak is a good way to go about sending money as it a paper-trail free and pretty easy to take care of.
Have just started accepting donations through them.Now I would not recommend doing this ,only well known ,well reviewed providers.I love it when traveling ,it reduces the time wasters no show/no call.If a new guy wants to see me without references ,will need a deposit.Love the idea.Thank god for Green Dot & money pack.I used PayPal before ,was great.Till they found out was used for adult entertainment froze & permanently closed my account.