Ok how about this. You go fuck some old ass ugly fat worn out should have been retired 25 plus years ago chick! (NOT many of those around Atlanta) OR you go with what FITS and go with the flow (You WILL have a fabulous time this way) OR you continue with negativity and end up "Fucked" anyway because you dwell on that, the NEAGATIVE! Sooo why not just find a lady that everything is a go and um.... GO FOR IT!!
Either way, I hope you find what makes YOU happy.
Hugs and kisses