I'm guessing based on experience that if it just happened with a patron of Trapeze that would be great, but if with a Provider I bet she'd rather be in on the selection process. Surprises can bite one in the hiney.
Hope it all turns out great for all.
Posted By: BlackKnight44 Is to find the hottest provider I can-- since my SB is bi-racial I think I can go either chocolate or vanilla.
We're at the bar...I know she'll be nervous...and my pre-arranged provider comes and starts hitting on her. Shoot...I may watch...or join in depending on how it goes. The thrill for me will be seeing my SB have a night she'll never forget.