Not that I am agreeing with what he is saying at all.  But at the same time, there is a line one should not cross regarding people's personal business.  But I do know there are providers out there that do this, especially if there is enough green to back it up.  Is it my cup of tea?  Hell no.  That said, if there was a provider where I knew I was the only client of and I had tested to back up it being safe, then yeah I would consider it, of course.  But that is NOT exactly how this world works.  So other than my limited screw ups over the years that I mentioned previously, the shaft is dressed when it goes in the muffin.  My only exception to that happened back in the 1980s when I decided to go home with a dancer I met at a strip club and didn't use a cover.  Neither one of us had one.  I got a different lesson with that one.  Don't ever make the mistake of thinking that a dancer in a strip club looks at sex the same way a provider does.  She was acting like she was going to marry me after a couple of nights, PSYCHO, PSYCHO, PSYCHO.  Sure glad she did not know where I lived, geesch.