I am by no means a nympho but I truly enjoy the scent, feel and look of various women naked. It really is that simple for me. While I am a husband and father, that piece of me has become routine. There is an ole saying "the only difference between a rut and a grave is the length". I am like most inner city males, you see girls patrolling the blvd at all hours of the night and have always been told they are on drugs, disease infested etc... It wasn't until a buddy of mine and I was cruising and he pulled over and picked up a girl on the corner, had me wait outside of the car and received a bj that my curiosity increased.  

It took the enhancement of the internet, bedroom boredom from 20 years of faithful marriage and learning about the escort business while listening to SiriusXM's Shade 45 that the seed was planted. Feeling horny and knowing my right hand was not going to get the job done, I acted on my impulses over the years and called a girl up. I was nervous as hell. Here I am in a business suit standing outside of a Motel6 in broad day light waiting for my appointment that never came. The crazy part about it was the girl saw me but was uncomfortable revealing herself because I looked like LE. I took that as a sign to stay away but I didnt. There was something about the nervousness, vibe and the urge I felt that became intoxicating. It was enough for me to call another girl up, this time explaining my situation that I am new to this and do not know what words to say. She appreciated my humbleness and scheduled an appointment. Ironically, that appointment was also at a Motel6.  

Once can say it was that moment that I got my mojo back. I felt alive again. My confidence swelled, not only in the bedroom but in other parts of my life, including professionally. I begin to realize my life was boring without any spice and my personality begin to resemble that. All of a sudden I was comfortable in my own skin and no longer looked at hobbying as sex with attractive females. It became more about meeting new, attractive people and we have sex as well. Many of my favorites I have personal relationships with. I know their real names, aspects of their home life and have seen outside of the hobby for a drink. I would dare to say I am friends with many of them. One escort worked to pay for  for Pharmacy school. A buddy of mine was a Pharmacist looking for intern support when I connected the two. A couple years later she is a Pharmacist. We stay in touch to this very day.    

I hobby because it keeps me alive and I enjoy meeting new people. Dont get it twisted, I have a sexual dark side that is fed through the hobby as well. I am learning more about myself the more I hobby. While I enjoy meeting new women, my menu preference has expanded to I am at a point when I ask women if they offer what is on my request list. If not, I keep it moving.  

There are two things I hate about hobbying:  
1. Individuals that ruin escort encounters with bullying tactics. I hate guys that pose harm to women or want to negotiate rates. It makes it difficult for hobbyists such as myself in escorts are very defensive in setting up appointments and even during the session.  

2. Escorts who truly hate interacting. I get it they need money, but if you are a recluse or not interested in meeting new and exciting people, dont do this. If these women just knew 90% of escorting is your personality they will be waaaaaay more successful. IF the first thing you do to a guy when he walks through the door is tell him to get comfortable and place the bag on him without any conversation, you are missing an opportunity at sustainable income (assuming the session is 30+ min).