Hi everyone! I'm a 34 year old professional man, family man, and generally a pretty sexual man although few know that side of me. However, I guess you could say my interest/activity in the hobby started when I was relatively newly married. While I knew getting hitched to her in particular was the right move for me, I knew it wouldn't be easy, for several reasons, some involving her personal history and how I'd manage as a result, but I won't get into that now.  I spent a lot of time just browsing and being excited by that - I'm not even sure if I started with swingers or escorts, but either way it was low low volume. It was legitimately interesting to see how girls (and some couples) presented themselves in that context. I befriended a few people and couples. Had a few flings, even met couples and like-minded males (no gay stuff) and ended up doing a short stint of ad writing and event planning for adult parties.  Evetually I hosted my own little party with a friend of mine, which just ended up being a smallish swingers party. Met so many interesting people. Anyway, at some point I stopped being completely fascinated by the social aspect. Well, more accurately, I just wanted to have a good sex life.  Despite my life at home and contacts elsewhere, I was unable to find intimacy more than about 1x monthly overall.  I filled much of that void with non-sexual intimacy, but with new friends found online (some eventually turned sexual).  It got to a point - basically where I am now - where I realized that I was investing a LOT of time cultivating relationships, at home and otherwise, and not getting much of a return sexually. I just couldn't take that anymore. So, as of late I've revived my hobbying interest and am seeking out the best GFEs that I can find. My life is pretty awesome but I get tired of feeling lonely, and I have only so many good sex years left, many if which have already been somewhat wasted.  I keep an eye out for Milwaukee area naughty hotties who are hopefully not entirely crazy.