I am a big fan of strap on play, as well as several other fetishes.  A few women advertise that they provide strap fun, but I have discovered that many other women will provide this service if asked.  Of course, you need to bring your own equipment and be SQUEAKY  clean (inside and out).  I have two stapons that I purchased at Smitten Kitten.  Don't buy the cheap "dong like" things at Fantasy House.  I leave the harness straps kind of long, so the it will fit a variety of sized women.  I bring my own lubes, condoms, and dildos.  I think you might be surprised how many women would enjoy pegging a man.  But, it takes some skill, so I would seek out someone with experience for your first few sessions.  

All of the ProDommes, with dungeons, will provide strap play, and most have their own gear.  I still bring my own, as I appreciate the hygiene.  

I don't have VIP right now, but I can be reached at [email protected]

Wonder if my favorite provider is willing to include this in our next session???

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