I am verbally shy, but over the years have become quite an exhibitionist. I have been a swinger most of my adult life, and find that what I enjoy most is the pleasure I am able to provide to others. I am a "people pleaser" at heart and I enjoy the fact that others enjoy me and what I have to offer....and yes I thoroughly enjoy the activities involved! It is not just a job to me, but a way to make money doing what I enjoy most.
I have always wondered what do providers enjoy most about their "job". Of course most of you are probably extroverts and enjoy meeting people but to you enjoy the .... other activities or are they just part of the "job". I've been visiting the same provider for a few years and want to ask unless its one of the off limit questions
I am verbally shy, but over the years have become quite an exhibitionist. I have been a swinger most of my adult life, and find that what I enjoy most is the pleasure I am able to provide to others. I am a "people pleaser" at heart and I enjoy the fact that others enjoy me and what I have to offer....and yes I thoroughly enjoy the activities involved! It is not just a job to me, but a way to make money doing what I enjoy most.
I do enjoy the part about meeting people, but I really feel that I identify more as an introvert. My batteries feel recharged by having time to myself, but I partake in many social activities.
I'd say that the psychology aspect really appeals to me. Sure, there is physical intimacy. However, I feel like I have grown to have a much greater understanding of others and the world by listening to others. Many share personal details about their lives, experiences, lessons, successes, hardships, failures, you name it....and I feel privileged to be privy to that. It's been a great education, and something I can carry with me when I eventually leave the world of escorting.
Just my two cents 
Keilan
In the truest sense of the word "introvert" I'm the type that needs alone-time to reboot myself once in a while. However, in addition to needing that solo downtime, I'm also very outgoing. I'm not shy, and would even say I'm extremely social. In a large crowd I'd likely be found engaging in conversation with lots of different people quite comfortably, however, at my core I prefer the conversations where I can engage on a deeper level with just one person at a time rather than have 10% of that connection with 10 people at once.
What I enjoy most about escorting is that I get to have that 100%-one-on-one connection with others and learn about different world-views that I otherwise would not likely have been able to engage in my day-to-day life. It's also exciting being in an environment that allows me to be both candid and somewhat anonymous, at least to the outside world. Similarly to how people tend to share more on the internet when they aren't face-to-face with the people they see everyday, except when escorting, I am face-to-face but everything that happens is "our little secret". That part of it is very thrilling.