Dear piranhad,

If you are wondering why your orgasms are much more satisfying with providers rather than porn, then the answer is extremely simple - humans were made to have sex with each other and not by themselves jerking off to still or moving images. When you have sex with a partner, there is oxytocin released, there is touch, there is an energy exchanged and there is something very primal and complete about such a union. Now, if you're diabetic, on meds and managed to have an orgasm despite this impediment - so much the better! The chemistry between you and the real live partner was such that you were satisfied, not just sexually, but also emotionally. Your olfactory senses were stimulated, you received touch, kissing (I hope), hugging, attention - of course all those things are going to contribute to a much more satisfying sexual experience than jacking off to porn.

Think of it this way - what tastes better - a fast food meal from McDonalds, or a home-cooked Thanksgiving feast with all the yummy fixin's?

Not rocket science here, fortunately
The Love Goddess