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USChgoGambler 522 reads
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With all the BBBJ being offered by providers has anybody caught an STD?  I want BBBJ just like everbody else but it comes with risk.

But note that asking a group of mongers who engage in non-monogamous sexual activity if they will publicly acknowledge having received an STD is likely unproductive.

To be fair, you'd also need to request the number of people who've received BBBJ and do not have an STD.  (I'm a data point)

Further skewing the results is the number who can say, with clinical precision, that the source of the STD was solely a BBBJ activity and did not involve incidental or transference contact.

Read through the discussion below and do the research; knowledge is power

ROGM1321 reads

Nope. Never caught an STD from a BBBJ. Heck never caught an STD at all. I'm pretty lucky and careful about which girls I play with.

There are few things worse than lying my head down after some fine work, only to face a barrage of questions such as "Have you ever shared needles for IV drugs?" and "How do you know you don't have chlamydia of the throat?"  

The risks are very small.  If a (quality, reputable) provider had an inkling of an indication there was a problem, she/I wouldn't work.  On the other hand, if you are young (always the case), and your school had aggressive abstinence-only, fear-mongering sex ed, just use a condom already.

PLEASE be as careful as your comfort level allows, it's no good for anybody to step over your line.

That is funny in a tragic sort of way.  I will be turning 45 and I grew up during the early and mid-80s and it really fucked with my teenage years because what was branded into my mind was almost that sex equals death.   I was not able to shake that crap until my mid 20s.

You think you're at high risk with your fluids in her mouth? Don't kiss her either, if you think her saliva will give you an STD. Do you use a condom for all mouth to mouth contact? Doesn't seem like much fun to me.

There's some risk involved in all our intimate exchanges. We choose to protect ourselves from the ones we can't live with.
A lot of providers in the UK where I've just been, offer bareback sex now. Personally I think this is insanity but saying that I do choose to offer bbbj at my discretion. I've never had any issues and I get a throat swab along with other sexual health testing.
I do accept there's a risk though. I guess you just do what you're comfortable with and use a well know and reputable provider :)

WICardinalfan623 reads

IMO there is the same, if not more risk engaging in oral with that hot chic at the end of the bar.

In other words, who really knows what the risk is when you are dating, unless you are going to insist she get tested before she kisses the one eyed wonder worm.

IMO oral sex is safer with a reputable provider because their lively hood depends on it

Bingo!   There are two reasons why I engage in the hobby rather than doing it the more difficult way -   (1)  It is a professional relationship and the risk of picking somebody up who may want more and may eventually do silly shit is much, MUCH smaller.  Also, just like the providers have a barrier, I have a barrier if I am paying for it.  It does not mean that I may not like someone, but there is a defined line that makes it all neat and tidy;  

(2) I feel exactly the same thing, that hot chic at the bar who is willing to go home and do it at first sight has probably engaged in some really risky behavior.  Let's face it, it is nice to fantasize that the hot chic at the bar really liked us and that is why she took us home and banged us, but really, chances are that we are not being picked for being that special, we were just one in a series itches that had to be scratched.    A pro will not want to do stupid shit that will sideline her and cost her money and physical problems

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