thanks for the info . i was wondering that myself do to a recent encounter
I have a question about my SO. We have been exclusive for over a year (both of us -I put my hobbying on indefinate hold). She is very petite, 5' 1", 105 lbs, mid 30's. She has had a number of relationships in the past (no kids) but I'm certain she is exclusive with me now. My question has to do with her vagina. I'm average size, but her vagina is not tight. In fact, it's one of the loosest I've ever had the pleaure of being in. Is this normal? Does the tightness/looseness of a vagina have anything to do with past or current sexual activities? Sorry about such a dumb question, but it's been on my mind for a long time.
Dear dulldick,
The vagina is a muscle and NO, its tension doesn't have to do with "past sexual activities." But if she is very excited [from your ministrations and presence, we hope,] all her muscles will relax - including her vagina! Oftentimes, this arousal and excitement is accompanied by profuse natural lubrication, which can make things feel even more "loose," from a man's point of view.
What can she do - Kegels, of course. Please do a search on this board and you'll see links to Kegel websites explaining how to do those exercises. The more she does, the tighter her vagina will grip your penis.
Dulldick - huh - coulda fooled me,
The Love Goddess
thanks for the info . i was wondering that myself do to a recent encounter
This is not exactly what dd asked but may be related.
I have a fault... I really enjoy pleasing my partner. On occasion, I have gotten wrapped up in her pleasure & taken her all the way... ALL THE WAY. Until she is totally spent. The result is that she is SO relaxed that it is near impossible for her to grip me no matter what.
In my limited experience, some women can become so well lubricated that there is no friction... or an excess of modern lubricants can do the same. With modern artificial lubes there can be a very fine line between not enough & too much.
Kegels are great for tightening and can be done virtually anywhere....but how do you bring that topic up (lol)? "Hey hunny, can you do these exercises so you'll be tighter", I can only imagine! I am also somewhat on that side of the fence, I am a perfectly well lubricated lady and have never had problems therefore things tend to go a little "smoother".
How about "honey your Va-JJ is way to loose you need to do your Kegels this week. If she is a loosy goosy