More often than not, I'm something of a Quick-Shot McGraw. Sometimes that's good, often it's not (especially when I've booked an hour and can't quite manage a second pop; being in my mid-40s may be a contributing factor). I know there are desensitizing creams, sprays, and condoms, but being able to hold out naturally would be a better long-term option.
And LG, any advice from you in this area? I'm open to suggestions, believe me.
I am a male in my late 30's and i have learned how to hold out and have multiple orgasms. Most of the time it reaches a point where I do not ejaculate. I don't masterbate often and i am not on any meds at all. I am I normal? Is this unhealthy?
Well that just depends, putacorkinit,
If you don't mind lack of ejaculate but are having multiple orgasms - great! Just another piece of evidence that orgasm and ejaculation need not be related.
Many men have so-called "dry" orgasms and some men are indeed multi-orgasmic by nature. Are you a freak if that's the case? Hardly. Just very fortunate, that's all.
I bet many guys wish they were in your...shoes
The Love Goddess
More often than not, I'm something of a Quick-Shot McGraw. Sometimes that's good, often it's not (especially when I've booked an hour and can't quite manage a second pop; being in my mid-40s may be a contributing factor). I know there are desensitizing creams, sprays, and condoms, but being able to hold out naturally would be a better long-term option.
And LG, any advice from you in this area? I'm open to suggestions, believe me.
Today I had a multiple orgasm .. more like 1 big one followed by 4 ones and it just went on and on for a few minutes.
I sometimes experience orgasm without ejaculation, which happens esp when the condom is tight. The orgasm happens but there's just no ejaculation coming out.
i have experienced a dry orgasm only once in my life with a superbly skilled woman. it was the best orgasm i ever had, plus no mess. and i was still hard to play some more. it was about 3yrs ago and i wish i could repeat it but don't know how. you my friend are one lucky s o b.