As a newbie, you need to a:
1) Get the VIP membership if you don't already have it.  That will enable you to read in great detail all about the provider(s) you wish to see.
READ, READ, & READ SOME MORE.  Read their Profile Page, ALL of their reviews, & read their website.

2)  Read the LAST several PAGES of this Newbie Board.  There you will find many answers to questions you undoubtedly have.

There really is no getting around these first 2 steps.  You should not proceed until these two steps are done.  Even after you've done steps 1 and 2 you should tread lightly.  For example, check your local board thoroughly.  Search your desired provider's name on the local board, see if anything comes up.  Back channel some of her reviewers to get answers to any lingering questions you may have.  As you do all of this, your confidence should surge.  Oh yeah, stay away from doing anything risky such as OUTCALL AT YOUR HOME until you've gotten a lot more experience.

I do not make outcalls to private residence. I
understand that there are providers who may consider it and ... I have been to a clients home on occasion. ~But that is the exception and not the rule.

First the considerations on your part... IF, you are ok with the possibility of the neighbors not noticing who is at your home -especially the woman down the road who is a friend of your wife!!..... then you are pass that.

Now, what type of vehicle will this provider be in? hmmmm, will she just opt to hire a car and have a Lincoln with a driver sitting in it outside your home for an hour or so.... will she borrow her roommate's '98 Gremlin and leave a huge oil stain on your drive?... hmmmm, will she drive up in a M3,Jag or 500SL and let it sit outside your home (*while your wife is gone*)

Now past the vehicle issue.... will the provider brush her hair in your bathroom and accidentally drop a hair on the floor (*or do you plan to vacuum when she leaves?*) will she wash her hands and dry them on your guest towels? hmmmm, might want to lay out towels for her use and then plan to wash them after she leaves.

What about the possibility of disposing of an item
that might seem out of place in your home... ie:
condom, condom wrapper.. etc etc are you planning on placing those in a bag and taking them out with you the next day when you leave for work?

I'll stop here, I just hope I have made my point.

Keep it simple.... most men are doing good to pay
attention to the details of showering with the same soap they use at home... let alone trying to notice everything else that could be a tip off to your behavior.

Men generally have a concern for the materialist items in their home but in my opinion, the assets in his life: ~family, friends, job, etc.... are just as valuable and need to be protected as much or more than his material belongings.

My incall is safe, private and unbelievably discreet. I do make outcalls to limited, specific properties when I am in my hometown. Outside of that, I would have to have a tremendous amount of confidence in the gentleman to venture into his home! (*and he has to be totally single, that is no woman in his residence what so ever*)

I might think twice about a provider that is allowing herself to walk into a private residence where anything could be waiting behind the door and there is not the security of calling the front desk for assistance......  (*just my thoughts*)

Play safe, know your provider   kisses ~Tori