To speak of all people in blanket terms is craziness.
Also, to try to relate to an article about sex that is written by and for Non hobbyists and non providers is also craziness. The majority of the people I have met in the hobby have different beliefs and truths when it comes to sex and love and the intermingling of the two. In the civie world, a large portion of what she writes may be true a great part of the time. However, in the hobby world, little of what she writes is true.
I can be intimate physically with someone without being intimate emotionally and spiritually. That does not mean I do not care about my gentlemen friends because I do. I enjoy their company while I am with them but that doesn't mean I have to grow old with them to feel complete or valued as a person, as a woman, and as a sexual being.