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+1; yes, not fair to the provider to mention any extra time or . . .
keystonekid 114 Reviews 334 reads
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any services you may have received that are not on her normal menu. This is another part of the definition of discretion.

Allstar1070 reads

Why do some providers allow you to run over time? I was with someone on Tuesday and she even said during the session she does not like younger men and wont see anyone under 40. She said one of the reasons was the younger guys are always staring at the clock. They do everything fast and more nervous. I am 45 and always secretly am thinking about the clock, obviously, I have a responsibility, but on Tuesday night, I left 38 minutes after the hour??

She led the whole interaction and I am used to girls sitting up, or getting off the bed etc. Some non verbal signal that time is up. In this case, she kept leading me and initiating things by grabbing lube and doing stuff until she got up and when I left, I looked at my phone and was like holy crap, its 8:38?? I got there at 7. This has happened in the past here and there too. Do providers do this because they want the first time to get you to keep coming back? I think I was her last appointment of the night? Maybe she was digging me/the company and just didn't care? One time, I remember I took a cealis (I never said I did) and after I popped I was fine. But she was looking at me lying next to me like heyyy. She asked if I wanted to go again and I said I was fine (I can only pop once) but I said if she wanted too I am okay with it. She jumped on me and rode me another 30 minutes. The only other time it happened was a doubles. One of the two girls asked me to fuck her again. The other girl had already gotten up and was walking around. I felt weird. I said but my time is up. She said dont worry about it. I fucked her a little while and asked if she came. She said she did so I got up and started to dress.

I often wonder why this happens? I am always so worried about going over time because I don't want to be seen as a guy trying to get more than I am paying for, so when ever this happens, I feel like I did something wrong. Like I am getting something I didnt pay for?? I know in two of the cases they seemed to want it, but it still makes me feel kind of like a mooch? Why would a provider purposely go over? Is it just to get you hooked to keep coming back

She was enjoying the session herself, she didn't want you to think her a clock watcher, she just lost track of time, the mechanics were running slow, etc.

In any case, don't overthink it, and show some consideration with a little extra tip or other way of saying "thank you"

Posted By: Allstar
Why do some providers allow you to run over time? I was with someone on Tuesday and she even said during the session she does not like younger men and wont see anyone under 40. She said one of the reasons was the younger guys are always staring at the clock. They do everything fast and more nervous. I am 45 and always secretly am thinking about the clock, obviously, I have a responsibility, but on Tuesday night, I left 38 minutes after the hour??  
   
 She led the whole interaction and I am used to girls sitting up, or getting off the bed etc. Some non verbal signal that time is up. In this case, she kept leading me and initiating things by grabbing lube and doing stuff until she got up and when I left, I looked at my phone and was like holy crap, its 8:38?? I got there at 7. This has happened in the past here and there too. Do providers do this because they want the first time to get you to keep coming back? I think I was her last appointment of the night? Maybe she was digging me/the company and just didn't care? One time, I remember I took a cealis (I never said I did) and after I popped I was fine. But she was looking at me lying next to me like heyyy. She asked if I wanted to go again and I said I was fine (I can only pop once) but I said if she wanted too I am okay with it. She jumped on me and rode me another 30 minutes. The only other time it happened was a doubles. One of the two girls asked me to fuck her again. The other girl had already gotten up and was walking around. I felt weird. I said but my time is up. She said dont worry about it. I fucked her a little while and asked if she came. She said she did so I got up and started to dress.  
   
 I often wonder why this happens? I am always so worried about going over time because I don't want to be seen as a guy trying to get more than I am paying for, so when ever this happens, I feel like I did something wrong. Like I am getting something I didnt pay for?? I know in two of the cases they seemed to want it, but it still makes me feel kind of like a mooch? Why would a provider purposely go over? Is it just to get you hooked to keep coming back?  
 

Don't expect it, but enjoy it when it happens, Appreciate the lady for it, and DON'T mention it in a review!

Can't tell you how many times I have read reviews where the guy talked about how much extra time the provider gave him.  Very bad idea.

LLAP,
Swim

Posted By: swimtrekr
Can't tell you how many times I have read reviews where the guy talked about how much extra time the provider gave him.  Very bad idea.  
   
 LLAP,  
 Swim
I agree.

any services you may have received that are not on her normal menu. This is another part of the definition of discretion.

NDNRAY243 reads

yes..like i always say...every 2 people are different and connect better & that intensity is there & she wants to share that with you...but not in reviews always ask that portion of your DISCREET meeting.

Posted By: keystonekid
any services you may have received that are not on her normal menu. This is another part of the definition of discretion.  

There are always varieties of reasons why this happens.  Just enjoy it and do not assume that it will always be that way every time you see her...or with every lady.

And it depends on how much over you went.

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