I've got an appointment in a week for a 90 minute session. Do you have any suggestions for exercises or diet or otherwise to increase my chances of recharging fast enough for a second cup of coffee in the session? Don't masturbate at all? Masturbate just a little but don't ejaculate for the whole week?
Dear Rudy50,
Second cups of coffee are all very individual and never guaranteed. What if you get there and you decide you don't want a second cup because she's not your cup of tea? But let's assume you do. I wouldn't masturbate at all for the whole week. That way, you'll be plenty charged up. On the other hand, if she's really fabulous at what she does, you could end up with a whopper of a first orgasm and then be totally drained. So...my suggestion is that when you get there, get excited to the point of ejaculating, but try not to. DATY and play around with her. At least that will delay the first one. Also, maybe the first one should be inside, with a condom. Then try for a BBBJ the second time. Some men have the good fortune of having "dry orgasms" during round two, usually during an especially intense BBBJ with lots of saliva and extra hand. No fluid comes out, but the brain is still experiencing a very powerful climax. As for diet and exercises - stay away from alcohol the week before, no smoking or drugs (MJ included,)and get plenty of sleep. Also, skip a heavy meal before you get there. Remember, you need to float like a butterfly but sting like a bee.
Enjoy the challenge,
the Love Goddess