if you must, try posting her name on your local board and see if anyone knows her
I am wondering where can I find information for providers not listed are reviewed on TER I been curious on a provider for
Months now but I have yet to see a review or TER profile yet. Want to make sure it is clear before business (LE, pimp, bait and switch, etc). Any help would be nice. I have link of provider I am looking at if needed thank you hobbiest
Have you done an internet search on the phone number or email address that this provider uses? Have you tried doing an image search using the photos on her ad to ensure they are not of someone else?
To be honest, you'll find that it can be a hit or miss situation seeing a provider with no reviews. That also holds true for some providers who are reviewed. I got burned a couple of months ago by a provider who had 3 reviews. She pulled a grab and dash and I've not seen another ad by her since.
My advice would be to stick with those who are well reviewed, with recent reviews. Read the self help area to get a better understanding of how things work in this arena. Even search through this board on subjects that you have questions on. There are some really very insightful and helpful folks from both sides of the equation who will be more than happy to give you their perspective
There is an expression about thinking with the big head and not the little one. You need to heed that advice.
You sound risk averse so why are you even looking at the girl in question? Wait till she has a page or more of legit reviews then revisit.
Move on to girl #2 on your list and if you are in the SD market, you should have no trouble doing so.
He posted a review for a provider who had no prior TER reviews and who does not list any screening sites that she might use. That sounds like TOFTT.
I can only go by what he says and he said:
"Want to make sure it is clear before business (LE, pimp, bait and switch, etc)."
If he wants to "make sure", the best way to come close to his own parameter would be to see well reviewed and highly reviewed girls
if you must, try posting her name on your local board and see if anyone knows her
He can ask for PM replies if he doesn't want to share any possible answers.
LLAP,
Swim
Let me set by bonifieds 1st, I got over 400 reviews(300 of those under another nic)and 90% of those are toftt!
Look 1st at her number, google it, if she has been to other states (more than 2 drop her), if nothing comes up I would not view this as a bad thing as the ladies lose phones,change numbers like we change socks.
When you call her, assure her your not police,then ask some very specific questions, such as is she gfe friendly, does she like to kiss?Pay close attention to the answers and how she answers.
If she is short on the phone chances are very strong she will be the same in a session!
The girl your looking for is new to the game and will want to talk to you!Now I want to say this is not fool proof ( I avg getting burned 1 out of 45 girls I see), but it will give you a better chance at having a good time.Let her know that this would be a regular situation for you to see her.
Now while others may disagree with me , none will have even a 5th the number of TOFTT as I do, so weigh that as you will.
I have another 20 reviews to this nic , but TER has stopped letting me put up reviews of TOFTT , asking that they have reviews!
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I don't write reviews but my interest is in keeping you newbs safe, not in promulgating an agenda or manipulating young women new to the business.
My advice, and advice that will be echoed by almost every experienced monger on this board is to NOT TOFTT or see any un reviewed women PERIOD until you are experienced enough to be answering questions here instead of asking them.
Other points I feel I need to refute, do NOT ask specific questions about sexual acts, most reputable women will hang up on you and put you on their personal DNS list or worse if you start prying for details about her sessions over the phone or through other communication before meeting in person. Don't do it.
When calling a provider NEVER assure her you are not police, that subject should never even come up, instead you should assure her you are a gentleman and that you will respect her rules and her boundaries. If you find either her rules or her boundaries unacceptable, don't push them or her, simply find a more compatible provider to spend time with.
Lastly, TER has good reason not to accept any more TOFTT reviews from this guy, keep in mind that reviews are the life blood of this site and accounts for 99% of it's value, if TER is limiting the reviews it will accept from this member, rest assured they have good reason.
I know sometimes you can become infatuated by a woman with no reviews or other history about her and it's tempting to throw caution to the wind, but as someone still new to this you need to exercise a bit of patience, if she really is "all that" somebody else will take that first chance on her and she'll still be around in a few weeks or months.