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Twenty years ago, an escort told me ....
ma vie 2039 reads
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...that after a while the ladies & the men both aquire what she called a "look".  She said it was a language communicated through eye contact.  Only the members of the community recognize the signal.  She said and I quote, "You can spot a working girl in church."  You keep the "look" even when you retire or quit the game.

I think she was correct.  It's in the eyes.  Sometimes in a business meeting or social setting, the eyes meet, she gives that mona lisa smile and we both know we are from the same subculture.

Twice in the last year, I have arranged to meet low profile ladies in a coffee shop before going to their incall places.  In both cases, neither of us really knew what the other looked like.  The meeting places were busy.  We knew each other instantly by "the look."

redheadedbbw4663 reads

I am sitting at my sons football practice and a charming man strikes up a conversation. So I think hmmm I wonder if he has seem my site. Oh i wish he would call would could have a lot of fun together. The evening goes on and later another gentleman dressed still in his work suit sits down to watch the practice. My thoughts go damn I love to play with him.So am I the only one that has these thoughts?

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Ayanna1576 reads

Oh, heck no.  I do the same damn thing!!  lol  There are a lot of times when I'm out in public and run into guys who I'd love to have the opportunity to have some play time with.  Grocery stores, gas stations, some that hold doors open for me and you look into their eyes and can tell they have that desire there.


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Missypetite241919 reads

Lol, nope you sure aren't.  I was at the airport on Tuesday and a gentleman early forties in a suit (I think men is suits are sooooo sexy....kinda like unwrapping a present :)sat down next to me.  He just had this incredible voice, just a total hottie (to me anyways). As we were small talking I felt those little butterflies fluttering down below lol.

His cologne was driving me mad.  All I could think of was ..Hmmmmm, boy the fun I would have with you lol.  

Happens to me all the time....I love it :)

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Jockeypants1854 reads

I attend hockey and football practices naked, whenever possible.

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redheadedbbw1486 reads

you need a spanking!

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SweetSexyClassy3502 reads

Redheadedbbw:  I have a paddle if you want to borrow it?!  LOL   Lisa of Boston :) *smile*

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skisandboots1509 reads

...he's right on the button!  Lucky is the man that gets your "little butterflies fluttering".

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CiaraHasFun3308 reads

Once you are accustomed to this industry, it happens.

There are times I will be just walking through the mall, at hockey practice,(football practice too) just anywhere and Ciara thinks :

I bet he is at work scouring the internet for escorts.. I bet he sees escorts... wonder if he sees escorts.

It isnt the business suit necessarily that sets off this persona. Just a certain look.

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little phil1799 reads

I've been scouring the internet for escorts!  By the way, that look you're trying to describe has a name....MALE

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redheadedbbw4119 reads

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CiaraHasFun2225 reads

Not male..

Just a certain.. something..  dont know what it is.

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Emperor Palpatine2112 reads

...evil.

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followme2445 reads

EVIL spelled backwards is LIVE.

Thank You

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ma vie2040 reads

...that after a while the ladies & the men both aquire what she called a "look".  She said it was a language communicated through eye contact.  Only the members of the community recognize the signal.  She said and I quote, "You can spot a working girl in church."  You keep the "look" even when you retire or quit the game.

I think she was correct.  It's in the eyes.  Sometimes in a business meeting or social setting, the eyes meet, she gives that mona lisa smile and we both know we are from the same subculture.

Twice in the last year, I have arranged to meet low profile ladies in a coffee shop before going to their incall places.  In both cases, neither of us really knew what the other looked like.  The meeting places were busy.  We knew each other instantly by "the look."

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Smarty11011982 reads

I do the same at the little league game, with the hotties and MILF's running around. Or in the mall or the grocery store, I'm thinking; "em, I wonder if she is a provider", "I bet she provides", "OMG, would'nt be cool if she were a provider". I be she s&*^'s a mean one. That ass, or man that ass, what an ass  !!

Happens all day long now. Shit I need to retire, this is killing me.

Nope, forget about it! This is not my fairwell notice.

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SweetSexyClassy2503 reads

I do this ALL the time.........I fantasize about handsome/charming men I have met and then wonder if they have seen my website too!  Its a "certain look"......and I smile:)   LOL :)   Lisa of Boston :)  



-- Modified on 8/18/2005 1:21:36 AM

Related Link: http://www.sweetsexyclassy.com

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coochmeister2426 reads

...business card under a briefcase, into a pocket or (sexiest of all) into a palm.  You can say, "I wonder if you'd like to have a drink after practice."  Speaking as a guy who's rarely seen without a suit, I can tell you that even a gentleman who's not a player will NEVER be offended!

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SweetSexyClassy3425 reads

Wow.............good idea coochmeister!!!!......lol   I think I will use that line next time I see a handsome/charming man! lol   Lisa of Boston :) *smile*

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divamissx4367 reads

and got new business.  Marketing 101.

Related Link: Divamissx of Florida

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redheadedbbw1882 reads

I have to admit in civvie life I am very shy. If I gave him a card and he didn't accept I have to look at him for the next 3 months knowing he knows.

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little phil3383 reads

I'm assuming that the note wouldn't say...I find you attractive, and I'd like to spend an hour with you for $$$.  I'd think you'd need to invest some time, and if he's not interested in you, he'll never find out about your occupation.

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A Different Viewpoint2424 reads

My only comment on this is that it is real interesting that you are interested in having sex with the man, but only if he paid you for a session and initiated contact with you.

Whatever happened to a woman (even a professional one), walking up to a guy and basically telling him flat out that you want to have sex with him????

But alas, that is a fantasy of mine that will never ever come true.  Never had a woman approach me for anything (except to tell me to stop staring at her perhaps). :(

-- Modified on 8/18/2005 6:34:29 AM

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Emperor Palpatine2151 reads

...though providers have repeated told me I am "sexy"...whatever that means.

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A Different Viewpoint1717 reads

...Is that while I appreciate the women swooning over men, why does it always have to be business with them?  Why can't a provider simply walk up to a man and say that she wants to have sex with him without expecting compensation?

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skisandboots2035 reads

That's what I understood to be coochmeister's suggestion.  Don't tell him you're an escort, just tell him you'd like to have a drink and perhaps more with him.  Chances are you'll be screwing each other's brains out within an hour.  Remember, guys think about sex like every ten seconds.  All of us have made fools of ourselves at some point because of it.  Most of us try to avoid repeating it if the signals are not crystal clear.  Simply smiling at a guy won't usually do it.  By no means am I any kind of 'love doctor', but this is my .02, and I appear to be echoing some of the other guys.

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Missypetite245376 reads

Well, I didn't slip a guy my number, but I did walk up to a gent that I met on the golf course.  We were teamed up in a tourney and afterwards I asked him if I could buy him a drink.. He was caught a little off guard.  We were side betting and were in a furious competition lol.  I knew the other two people we were playing with (I had been playing with them for 3 years).  So it the jokes were running high (they don't know what I do )and I felt comfortable with him.  What a great sense of humor, God that's hot. He left town two days later with a grin on his face.  I won a brand new putter (two of them..grin).  

First time I had done something like that....I was glad I did.    I don't know if I could just go up to someone and tell them I want to rock their world though.

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skisandboots2163 reads

When I was in college, my brother and I were standing talking to my best friend at a party he was hosting at his apartment.  The party was basically just starting (not too many people yet), when this hot chick walked up to us and said to my friend, "I want to fu#k your skull!".  The three of us definitely heard her, and maybe others, as well.  Once my friend was able to speak, he asked me for the keys to my apartment, which was just across the parking lot.  Needless to say, they came back to the party about an hour later smiling from ear to ear.  While this kind of thing never happens to me (life is so unfair), I did have the priviledge of witnessing it.  This took place about 20 years ago.  Neither I nor my friend even remember the chick's name (she may never have told us), but we'll never forget what she said (and my friend will never forget what happened at my apartment).  Trust me, most likely you will be fulfilling some guy's fantasy if you tell him you want to "rock his world".  Hell, I like to hear that even when I'm "paying for it".

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luv_women1641 reads

..Would certainly make me very happy for a very long time.  In fact most men even if they politely declined would fell much better about themselves for a long period of time.

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1woody2101 reads

I was a front line soldier in the Sexual Revolution. I was in shape to do it all night then. Some of us old guys find it hard to understand how this country has gotten so inhibited these days.

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