well said..we all learn not to mess with Mother Nature..
At the end of the day, we're both adults and know that bodies sometimes don't always do what we'd like them to do. It shouldn't make or break an otherwise good time.
what do providers think/do when an older gent has a ED moment when in session?
Don't panic!..
Just be yourself and let the rest happen..
You are so right.. and I had NEVER in my entirelife had an outage.. I did not appreciate or undertand the ads on TV for all of the ED drugs.. and thought "wow, I wish I had that problem.. I get tired of walking around like a teenage boy in my office, when traveling, etc.."
I made my 1st date appt.. and she arrived at my hotel room.. all was new to me.. I was shaking & a nervous wreck.. and guess what.. with the condom, newness, nervousness. I could not keep it up.. she finished me off with a CIM BBJ.. which was great and all but not what I had expected.. I was mortified.. she was asking if it was her.. etc.. OK.. so on to the next date..
I was OK.. but she still had to finish me with a BBBJCIM.. huh? the condom , etc.. so then the next date (same provider as the 2nd). I couldn't get it up.. so once again CIM.. This was new?.. and after no sex for 12 years.. I was disgusted.. I had waited too long to start this up and had my body forgotten how it all works? Then I got a Rx for Viagra.. love it.. no problem since.. just part of aging I guess. and now confidence coming back and an absolutley lust filled great session yesterday with the same provider (my 4th visit) so now that's 3 visits to 3 different providers with no issues PV (post Viagra).. so now no more worries.. before I couldn't sleep I was so upset.. now all is fine.. it happens..
I would never want to make anyone feel badly. I treat others the way I hope to be treated!
Nothing to be ashamed of....