I think there is a perception that Strap on play falls into the Domination category. There are gents who like the play but aren't into pain or bondage.
How about offering the option to search by ladies that offer strap on play? I am sure that must have been mentioned before.
It has been suggested before in the more general context of Toys. It was also a suggestion that, maybe, got TER to add "check all that apply" capability to the new review form and Profiles.
See these threads, for starters, and I think there are even older ones:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=13720&boardID=4&page=#13720 (also the hot link, below)
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=14540&boardID=4&page=#14540
I think there is a perception that Strap on play falls into the Domination category. There are gents who like the play but aren't into pain or bondage.
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