hmmm...that's what i wondered about. Funny thing is that he has hit rock bottom, can't sleep, begs to be at home. All was good - in bed and out. Quite honestly, most people always wondererd how/why he got the SO he did - better looking, smarter, etc. So, it just seems so odd why a man would do that - boredom, fantasy, etc. But in the end...is that worth it?? Maybe.