A good place for you to start is the self-help center, in it you will find the answers to many questions you may have about TER. The link can be found near the life preserver at the top of the various boards.

1. Read the self help center.  If you have questions, ask them here.
2. Introduce yourself on your local regional board.
3. Start replying to threads on your LRB, so the gals can get a feel for your personality.

Good luck and happy hobbying.

Swim