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stefaniesong See my TER Reviews 1668 reads
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I'm pansexual so sometimes after being with lots of guys I am particularly fond of girls because it's harder to get with girls as a girl (you guys are so lucky!), whether at a club or thru providers. As a provider myself I see hiring other providers as a sort of "reward" but when I call I almost get instant hang-up the moment I speak, even before I can explain that I'm trans. (One time this AMP told me, "no ladies!" and blacklisted me after 5 seconds.) But whyyyy. It's not fair.  

Literally one provider told me, "if you want to see girls why don't you change back to a boy". #thestruggleisreal

I'm curious -- do most providers not see queer girls / lesbians as a rule? Seems odd if they're offering two girl specials, no? ;)

JessicaOngTS754 reads

Hu, Stephanie.  I suspect the answer is the combination of some female identified providers not really being into other women, even though they advertise they are, plus a general unfamiliarity or reluctance to see trans people.  

I'm curious about your experience as an Asian trans woman callimg an AMP. I wonder if their reaction would have been the same with a cis woman. Or a non-Asian.

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stefaniesong552 reads

the thing tho is that they didn't seem to understand I was trans, I usually don't even get to explain *that* before they hang up. it's like literally the moment I open my mouth that they hang up.  

it's to the point I'm curious what would happen if I masculinized my voice (now very hard to do -- a few years ago I tried to sound like a boy "again" and was told "you sound like a girl trying to sound like a boy") and called them

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AsianAlison686 reads

I know the pain. I was looking for a reliable GG provider to do double sessions with for a long time and couldn't even find a single one. So I end up letting the clients who requested the TS+GG session do the contacting and that usually works out. I'm sure most people just like to stick with their most common types of clients and not deal with anything out of the ordinary.  

I did have a girlfriend for a while, and I met her as well as other girls who are open to TS at anime conventions. Usually the girls who cosplay are much more likely to be ok with TS. Most people in that circle are pre-exposed to TS through all the TS characters in Anime, "futanari" type of porn, and crossplay.

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stefaniesong441 reads

thanks for the advice :) maybe I just haven't found myself addicted to anime yet. the only one I've really watched is Spirited Away and it was beautiful

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stillettos7553 reads

This should be interesting.You might have to dummy down at times in here. The"moderators" influence is;well you'll see.lol

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LATSDog484 reads

Because he deletes your rude posts?

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TSIvyAnders542 reads

Posted By: stefaniesong
Literally one provider told me, "if you want to see girls why don't you change back to a boy".
That is fucked up.

I feel ya, girl. I LOVE women (both cis and trans) and it's been too long. Been several months since I've been with a cis girl, and it was YEARS before that.
Literally...I've had sex with 2 cis girls and one trans girl, since May 2011.
It's tough. I got pretty decent "game" and don't usually have any trouble piquing a lady's interest at the bar, but time and again...as soon as I let them know I've got a dick.....crickets.

And that's here in liberal, LGBT-Friendly Austin.

I think part of MY problem is that I don't go to the right places. All my hangouts are pretty...."normal"? Like...I never make it out to any of the queer bars (we even have a bar here that is known as a hangout for trans girls), as my preference is dirty hole in the wall type places and plain ol' bars.

I've thought about treating myself and finding another provider. I know they're out there. I just wish "trans" wasn't such the big deal that it is, and more people were open to us.

Ugh!...The struggle IS real.

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lopaw362 reads

...and I find that most providers I inquire to about entertaining female hobbyists are very open minded and very receptive.

I suspect that you are not calling the right ladies. How are you researching who to call? I'm curious, since I have my own system that is very simple and has yielded alot of success.

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