But you are correct, you would be running to mommy if you report it, and there is absolutely no upside for you. First of all, if she isn't responding to you then she doesn't want to see you, and reporting her will not change that, it's just vindictive. Second, if she really is not a nice person, you report her and she puts you on a blacklist somewhere.

No upside.

It's ridiculous to REQUIRE or EXPECT that a lady respond to every inquiry - sure, it's the courteous thing to do, but some of these ladies receive hundreds of emails, if they answered them all they wouldn't have time to fuck. And yes, some of them are just unprofessional or impolite. So what? Move on to the ones that treat you right.

looked at her profile to determine when she last logged on? As I understand it they (providers) have to log in at least once a month in order to keep their profile active. There are quite a few here in Ohio that seem to only check 411 once a month. If I've sent a request to a woman and she doesn't respond (and I KNOW she has looked at her profile since I made the request) I'll try using another method if there is one available. Usually providers list their website or email on the profile page. I agree that reporting her to management is in poor taste. Too many variables for you to determine the cause of her not responding.

P411 requires providers to sign in to their account at least once every 60 days to keep their account active. They also are required to respond to appointment requests and requests for OKs within 48 hours or they can have their accounts suspended. It doesn`t mean they have to respond to the guy making the request for an appointment, or that they have to give the OK, but they have to at least respond to P411 and explain why they aren`t responding to the guy. P411 emails them when they have a request so even if they don`t sign on to P411 evey day, they should know the request came in. However, we don`t know if they are cheking their email every day, so they might still miss it.

So, yes they do have rules they have to follow and P411 is strict about them. However, Would I complain? No. I`m with the other responders to this thread. That is like crying to mommy or tattling to the teacher, and I would always assume there is a reason they didnt reply anyway. Either they are on vacation, taking a break, maybe had some emergency, or they don`t want to see me. In any of those cases, I have no reason to pursue it, so I would just move on and look for someone else.

I am only projecting what I would do in the above scenario, because I haven`t had a request go unanswered yet. But I`m sure it will happen eventually.

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Probably too busy if she hasn't, happens with touring providers sometimes.

Probably not interested if she has.

P411 would take your complaint seriously but you want to save your aces for when you really need them and don't want to come across as a pain in the a** to P411 staff by complaining about the little stuff.

I would block her so she can't review your profile anymore and move on.

I prefer a guy email me than private message me, and that goes for any message board or screening site. It takes me longer to log in to a site, than to simply reply to an email from a mobile device. I just hit "reply" when an email comes in, but with another site I actually have to log in, and then fool around with the stupid phone trying to see the words ha ha.

If it has been a damn week, I would simply send Gina a note letting her know. Possible the provider has a life and is not on the net 24/7 like I am, so don't always assume the worst. I had a guy send me a request for an appt. and I responded in less than an hour....that was 2 months ago, and I have still not heard from him. WTF is the point of contacting me if you can't respond again after I take the time to write to you?

Thanks for all the info...

With both appointment requests now she has never looked at my profile.  She has logged in within a few days of my requests.

"It doesn't mean they have to respond to the guy making the request for an appointment, or that they have to give the OK, but they have to at least respond to P411 and explain why they aren't responding to the guy"  From this I take it that P411 knows if the provider has responded to an appointment request.  If her reason not too respond is good enough for them, then it is good enough for me.  I didn't know if they could know whether she had responded to an appointment request or not.

Like my second request, I will probably just send another request a few months down the road and see some other providers in the mean time.  If I was in a large market area I would probably blow it off completely, but since there are limited choices I figure it doesn't hurt to knock on the door every once in a while.