At the request of two members I am posting this in the General Discussion area as well:
Hello Newbie Hobbyists!
This is Carol and I just wanted to give a heads up on something that seems to happen alot more than anyone really wants to chat about. However, I have seen the outcome and end result of it more than a few times.
I am talking about the wives, girlfriends, fiances and ANY other woman (or man for that matter) that you do NOT want knowing about your extra ciricular activities. I implore you and seriously caution you on discretion. i.e., phone numbers, computer use, pieces of paper left with info, cellphone bills AND "recent calls" option on your cellphone use (located directly on the phone) and any other place that leaves a clue for a half-way intelligent and suspicious person to look for answers.
The reason I am pointing this is out is because I have been harrssed, threatened and even stalked by a gentlemens better half in the past and its down right scary. Gentlemen I can assure you women can be extremly clever and calculating and most of us will stop at nothing when we feel our security is being threatened. It puts the Providers in an aweful position and we become the object of a persons rage, jealousy, and vindictiveness. To me its like "killing the messenger" for reading the message. So, PLEASE use discretion and extreme caution when engaging in such a satisfying and necessary activity.
Battle Gear off! Deep breath and go out there and have fun baby! Thats what its all about...
xoxoxxoxo
Carol of Palm Springs
-- Modified on 8/23/2004 1:11:22 PM
Remember, even without spyware, it's easy for your wife or SO to track where you've been browsing.
Recently a friend of mine was contacted by a man's other half. She was informed that the man was free to come f#$k her, speak spanish, have babies whatever. The point was my friend couldn't even deny who she was or what she did for a living. The other half already knew, not to mention she had already looked at the website. Boy oh Boy. Not just for the newbies, but for you long time hobbiest too. Pay attention to what Miss Carol said... live long, prosper, and hobby to your hearts content!!!