Newbie - FAQ
you can post it on you local board, however, personally, I wouldn't - it can have negative consequences for you - what if she post something negative about you or puts you on a don't see list. Why slam a girl for not showing up. Can you imagine what these boards would look like if the girls posted every time a guy didn't show?
I don't know what area you are in, but, IMHO, the best course of action is to just take your money and move on to the next girl. There are WAY too many quality providers out there that will show up on time and show you the time-of-your-life to be wasting any time or effort on girls that stand you up.
Good luck & have fun!!!
That's the official rule is it? Thanks for the quick reply! 
I'm puzzled about what she could post about me since she never met me?
these girls do for a living. If she consistently no-shows, she wont be around very long anyway.
Point is, when you post something negative about a girl, you are fucking with their livelihood in a lot of cases.
There are blacklists or don't see lists out there that the girls use to screen clients. Also, if you are a TER member, as part of the screening process, some girls will look at your TER posts.
Bottom line is she could simply get pissed and make something up and put you on a blacklist and you'd never know it, other than you might find it pretty hard to set-up any new dates.
Thank you for the advice, but:
"Point is, when you post something negative about a girl, you are fucking with their livelihood in a lot of cases."
When you say that, I hear: "You can't tell people the baker uses rat poison instead of flour, it might harm his livelihood!" If telling people about someone's business practices harms their business, well that's fair enough.
"There are blacklists or don't see lists out there that the girls use to screen clients. Also, if you are a TER member, as part of the screening process, some girls will look at your TER posts. Bottom line is she could simply get pissed and make something up and put you on a blacklist and you'd never know it, other than you might find it pretty hard to set-up any new dates."
And when you say this I hear: "you should people intimidate you into keeping silent, otherwise they might do bad things to you." Which is certainly practical advice, but somehow doesn't appeal to me.
Thank you all the same for your help and advice.
When you say that, I hear: "You can't tell people the baker uses rat poison instead of flour, it might harm his livelihood!" If telling people about someone's business practices harms their business, well that's fair enough.
And when you say this I hear: "you should people intimidate you into keeping silent, otherwise they might do bad things to you." Which is certainly practical advice, but somehow doesn't appeal to me.
Thank you all the same for your help and advice.
Would you find it an overreaction for a provider to put you on the black list, or tell fellow providers not to see you simply because you no-showed once? Would you think she was being unreasonable for putting a damper on your "business" over something like this? My guess would be yes.
And as a side note, look at the kind of provider you're visiting. It's much more likely for this kind of situation to come up when you're 10th in line at motel 6 vs. the only for the day at her high end in call. Being realistic makes the hobby much more fun, I promise.