If she was a professional, you wouldn't have spent 20 minutes on your knees, but it would have been her instead.

While I agree that we should all be gentlemen and polite it shouldn't be necessary to massage her psyche on our dime for nearly half the session.

No need to step off your soap box. You will tumble off eventually.

WK's and manginas do. That's how you tell the difference.

I don't care about the hair as long as your extension doesn't come off in K9

Don't worry Mitzi. I am a gentleman and I promise not to massage your ego. That's your job.

Where does that silly shit come from? High school?

I will admit I a newbie at this but an important lesson was learned the other night .

I met a lady for the first time the other night . Had some reservations , a few reviews ( just a few ) were not that great . Yep , little head did the thinking and I took a chance .
The lead up texts and calls were then making me question Mr. Happy's intelligence for sure .

The date was by far the best experience I have EVER had - here or in the civie world .
What seemed to be the difference is how the lady, is , and has been, treated in the past .

I am a self confessed nice guy and I have missed many oppurtunities through my life, as women seem to play with us and then toss us aside . Not all of course , but the old saying nice guys finish last has certainly been my experience . Completely non caring assholes seem to keep their attention, and the old " bad boy " theme seems to hold true a lot !  My parents raised me right and my world wide travel to 3rd world countries has changed my view of all people - it is who I am , and I would, and won't change that !

But this provider is no doubt jaded - its clrystal clear, and in your face . It sucks, and I have compassion for all the lady's in this profession simply trying to please men and pay the rent . I put myself in their shoes ( as much as I can ) . The unknowing of the first time the door opens to a new client ( must be terriffying for a woman ). Her self image , and will the guy find me pretty ? The list is probably a mile long , but stop for a second and imagine.

OK now ........Combine that with a buch of assholes who you deal with just to pay rent . This lady has definatley seen her fair share of these assholes and is understandably jaded from it .

Fucking stop it guys !!!!  Your ruining it for the gentlemen that do exsist . Get your head out of your ass and take it out in another arena - maybe the gym , start a bar fight or something.

It took a good part of my time with this wonderful lady to let her see that she was being respected , admired and safe . I only had an hour with her, and it took 20 minutes for her to see she was appriciated , admired and safe . This is how gentleman should be making them feel is how I see it .

The date was simply incredible .......why ? because she felt at ease with me - a gentlemen ! It was returned to me ten fold and it was as close to a GFE as one could have. The conversation just flowed once the tension left her ,and the play time was off the charts for BOTH of us ! Was for me anyway

If your going to be an ass, than expect it back ,move on, and keep your damn reviews to yourself - you prbably caused the performance to be less than your liking . Just sayin ..........

Pllewase guys, it causes those who caome after you to have a tougher time than we ordinarially would .

Be a fucking gentleman !!!!

That is all , I will step off my soap box !

A poster that  is wimpy, effeminate, and submissive is a gentleman???  I don't know any ladies that want a guy like that. Girls want pigeon clients with those traits, but not as a mate, BF, or partner. Enough of the BS ladies.

you are supposed to give them to your SO so she can cleanse herself of your insemination.

What are the sayings about sex?

I'll take NO exception whatsoever to the theme of your post.

(After all I'm the man who still gets the occasional "You must be a woman" comment from nuckle-dragging ASSCLOWNS because of my pro-respect, pro-woman approach toward providers.)

However, I am sceptical of your post's deeper authenticity as a genuine "here's-the-best-approach-with-providers" sentiment.

I think you just might be playin' lip service to the crowd for your own selfish reasons and here's why:

You say you are a noob, lacking experience with providers. (OK.)

You spend time convincing us of how you are more in touch with understanding all types of people from around the world. (Hmmm.)

You explain how you empathize and 'put yourself in a provider's place' and see the world throught her eyes. (Ohhhh!)

You tell us you have a satisfying session with a poorly rated provider. (Alright,so YMMV)

You conject that her other clients treat her poorly, i.e. you imply she is treated 'as a whore' by other most other men. (Is that so?!)

You credit your own superior behavior and  personality as what as lead her to deliver a great session performance she finally felt she she was with a man who knew her value. (Wow! You ARE special, huh?)

Yet...

When I go read your paltry 1 review * I notice you reviewed a provider who had several pages of 8/9s  in performance (couple 7s, none lower)... then comes you - "just a guy being a guy."

And you give her a GODDAMNED 4!!  F-O-U-R????

And why? let's see...

'Cause she closed her eyes and went straight to a BAREBACKBLOWJOB?!? Oh! what a worthless bitch she was, for not looking up and giving you porn-style eye-contact, eh Gilligan??

Then, when you lick at her pussy she is QUIET????

Oh NO! What a frigid, uncaring cunt, huh? How dare her not scream your name and call out to baby Jesus as you rocked her world!  Sounds like you deserve a refund, you Herculean-Sex-God!!!!

I have NEVER seen a more blatant example of narcissistic self-grandious adulation-grabbing pile of bullshit on this board before now. Pathetic!

Poeple like you learn what to say to mimic compassion and understanding when you interact with others, and it often works. But there are always subtle signs. Subtle though they may be, they are powerful and damning--when lined up--and when exposed they clearly display your true colors in glorious tech-ni-color.

So in summary I will say...

It don't add up, Gilligan, and I call BUULLSHIT!!!

That is all, I will now step off my soapbox.  

Bro-hugs!





HalfHour



P.S. By the way, Gilligan, let me tell you a story. About a month ago I had the pleasure of an intimate encouter with a beautiful young dancer. This was not a P4P, so there was no need to impress me with fake anything. During oral on her, I wondered if she was enjoying it as she made none of the sounds nor movements that I find gratifying as on going signals of pleasure.

Be that as it may, I continued, as always, as if my life depended on her pleasure. After about 20 minutes she 'convulsed' just once, not unlike a  lifeless body being hit with defribrillator paddles, and yelled "STOP!"

She gasped quitly and whispered. She said she had the slow, sensual techniques made here cum much harder than she had in a very long time, which was substantiated by the sweet puddle she released onto the sheets.

Some women are quiet cummers. So much for your understanding of women, and how you want them to feel respected and honored for who they are.

Fuck you, you fucking fuck!  



P.P.S. If I'm wrong, ignore me.
But I don't think I am.



P.P.P.S. * Yes, there are no reviews associated with HalfHour.
Deal with it.

Be a gentlemen! It ain't rocket science.

Thanks a bunch for giving up my secret.  I have yet to have anything less than an exceptional time with my "dates" with twenty or so different providers. It may may be luck, but more likely: 1) preparation (seeing well-reviewed providers), and 2) being respectful to those that I do see.  Who cares whether other guys act like jerks, it's their choice and ultimately their loss.  I'm having the time of my life with ladies who appreciate my good hygiene and respectful behavior.

You're truly pathetic.  Why do you always try to convince us you're a man?  Get therapy.

Are you really that retarded?

I spoke my opinion and all you can talk about is a woman's douche?
Lay off the estrogen treatments candy ass.

Oh never mind, go ahead. It's a slow night on the boards. Just don't go shooting any innocent bystanders. lol

Choice of words? Shortening? You said "+1" Come on. Even you have to admit that +1 has less sophistication then even saying "I agree"

I am glad that you see things my way now

BTW, no need to whine and cry your pretty little head off about my alias. ego_check was here long before your even started cashing in on your muff.

You know how it is. Try to teach folks some proper manners and there is always one of those "guys" with tape in their pants rushing to be heard.

Take care of my light work, will ya?

"I am a self confessed nice guy and I have missed many oppurtunities through my life, as women seem to play with us and then toss us aside . Not all of course , but the old saying nice guys finish last has certainly been my experience . Completely non caring assholes seem to keep their attention, and the old " bad boy " theme seems to hold true a lot !  My parents raised me right and my world wide travel to 3rd world countries has changed my view of all people - it is who I am , and I would, and won't change that !"

I could of wrote that.I have the same issues. I tend to defer to the lady (providers more so than civvie gf.)


That is not to say some of my ex gf don't  still think I'm an ass___

I have a couple of grand on the GB/ATl game and need a bit of a diversion.

LP will ocassionally post a "topic amnesty" day. I am posting a "board war" amnesty. Knock your brains out. If and when I sober up, I'll clean up your mess then. In the meantime, knock yourselves out. lol

Cocky is only one way to describe me; one with a more positive outlook might say self-assured. And sarcasm is about the only language I speak. It hasn't been a problem.

No fucking way would I leave my "real" personana anywhere, for what? I'm not here to impress none of these motherfuckers. And who else would I be? A quivering, bitch-made desperate trick stereotype? I don't even know how. I don't roll in there like 'The Fonze' and start my Andrew Dice Clay routine either.  

Nice guy = pussy. Bad boy = asshole. Really? We either have to be a doormat or a douche bag? I think there is something in between, with no cool word for it, just called being normal.

Ok...I'm not that normal...but I'm just sayin...

And to the groveling OP - gentlemen don't cheat on their wives, do they? Ooops, there goes 90% of the escort business. Maybe just being a guy who takes showers, doesn't abuse women, and has enough coin to play the game is enough? Maybe? 20 minutes of sniveling to make her feel better about her job? Pfffft. So how did you enjoy the strap-on that came afterwards? That angry bitch can go work at Burger King for all I give a fuck. Everyone has choices.

Guys definitely don't need to massage our egos (or our vaginas) in order for us to consider them gentlemen. We expect to perform services and cater to them- anything we get in return is just a bonus.

However, unsolicited opinions (weight, breast size, hairstyle, etc.) are a huge turn-off. As long as a client keeps these to himself (some of y'all are pretty hurtful :/), isn't a total misogynist, is clean and respects any boundaries a provider has, we will probably consider you a gentlemen.

....be a gentleman.  Thankfully, I screen very well, and always speak with new friends via phone, before we meet.  I read people very well, and rarely have been disappointed, and vice versa.  Also, I am fortunate, in the sense that I do not "have" to visit with someone to pay my rent.  I have a few gentlemen who provide a monthly allowance of sorts, and I rarely have requests for one hour dates.

   I adore gentlemen, so this profession comes easy to me.  I enjoy all aspects of entertaining, and I look at it as an "experience".  I think if more men were "gentlemen", and more ladies put forth the effort to make the date an experience; not a session, life would be better for all parties involved.  

Hugs and Kisses

Posted By: guybeingaguy

I will admit I a newbie at this but an important lesson was learned the other night .

I met a lady for the first time the other night . Had some reservations , a few reviews ( just a few ) were not that great . Yep , little head did the thinking and I took a chance .
The lead up texts and calls were then making me question Mr. Happy's intelligence for sure .

The date was by far the best experience I have EVER had - here or in the civie world .
What seemed to be the difference is how the lady, is , and has been, treated in the past .

I am a self confessed nice guy and I have missed many oppurtunities through my life, as women seem to play with us and then toss us aside . Not all of course , but the old saying nice guys finish last has certainly been my experience . Completely non caring assholes seem to keep their attention, and the old " bad boy " theme seems to hold true a lot !  My parents raised me right and my world wide travel to 3rd world countries has changed my view of all people - it is who I am , and I would, and won't change that !

But this provider is no doubt jaded - its clrystal clear, and in your face . It sucks, and I have compassion for all the lady's in this profession simply trying to please men and pay the rent . I put myself in their shoes ( as much as I can ) . The unknowing of the first time the door opens to a new client ( must be terriffying for a woman ). Her self image , and will the guy find me pretty ? The list is probably a mile long , but stop for a second and imagine.

OK now ........Combine that with a buch of assholes who you deal with just to pay rent . This lady has definatley seen her fair share of these assholes and is understandably jaded from it .

Fucking stop it guys !!!!  Your ruining it for the gentlemen that do exsist . Get your head out of your ass and take it out in another arena - maybe the gym , start a bar fight or something.

It took a good part of my time with this wonderful lady to let her see that she was being respected , admired and safe . I only had an hour with her, and it took 20 minutes for her to see she was appriciated , admired and safe . This is how gentleman should be making them feel is how I see it .

The date was simply incredible .......why ? because she felt at ease with me - a gentlemen ! It was returned to me ten fold and it was as close to a GFE as one could have. The conversation just flowed once the tension left her ,and the play time was off the charts for BOTH of us ! Was for me anyway

If your going to be an ass, than expect it back ,move on, and keep your damn reviews to yourself - you prbably caused the performance to be less than your liking . Just sayin ..........

Pllewase guys, it causes those who caome after you to have a tougher time than we ordinarially would .

Be a fucking gentleman !!!!

That is all , I will step off my soap box !

That said, you and your friend sound a little martyred.  Isn't the trick of life to play to strength and avoid weakness?  Your whole story just translates to the two of you seeing more of each other.

+1

This is where things get a little funny in the scene.....when you're "paying" for pussy, the "assholeish charm" will either get you thrown out the door or blacklisted(not that I've ever put on the "asshole charm" where I've gotten blacklisted or thrown out..I know better than that).  The same escorts who will throw you out or blacklist you for being a charming asshole, are the same women who gravitate toward these types of guys to begin with...they just won't tolerate it from a John, which I would say is because when a John does it, she automatically associates it with him hating women(in her mind, "hating women because he can't get any, hence he takes out this assholeish persona on her") OR him being crazy.  Like I've said many times already, there are too many stereotypes attached to Johns.

Now, I've had no problem turning up the cocky-funny-sarcastic charm on hot civvie women and not getting laid from it.  It's always worked positively for me.  I'm not saying all women(escorts and civvie women alike) respond positively to it, but most do.  Just realize that the rules that apply to the civvie world do not apply to the escort world.  

-- Modified on 10/9/2011 4:13:38 PM

-- Modified on 10/9/2011 4:14:16 PM

Or do you just play one on TER?

I just hate when guys are nice on the boards to us girls, many of them are put down.  I am happy to see guybeingaguy not afraid to be be a sweetheart, and that no one has been an ass to him yet for it.  

Hmmmm.  I don't think shortening what I have to say is such a bad thing, Mr ego_check.  But hiding behind an alias simply to chastise one's choice of wording is incredibly silly.  I am glad I read the boards.  It helps give me a sense of who I might have fun with and who is- well, like YOU.  Grouchy, much?      

-- Modified on 10/9/2011 12:03:43 PM

Sorry, the short-hand was for ego_check.  Couldn't resist.

XxxxxXxxx

-- Modified on 10/9/2011 12:02:10 PM

try to remember this:  the first thing to do when you find yourself in a hole is, stop digging.

That all went to hell in a handbasket!  

Halfhour's points actually ring of truth.

Dang.

What a fucking pussy you turned out to be.  You're all over this thread pissing on people but you get your little panties in a wadd when someone pisses back.  Candy ass?  You are the definition.  Crawl back into your hole.  Sorry I called you a douche, asswipe.  Oops.  Used asswipe.

you're not only an asswipe, you're an OLD asswipe!  LMAO!  You need to retire.  You got no game.

You're about to hear from ego_mcmuffin, used asswipe of the board.

methinks the hour appt. makes that difficult.

it might be ok for a first meeting, but I can't "get to know" a provider if all I ever do is jump from one hr. appt to one hour appt.

Posted By: BeautywithBrains

....be a gentleman.  Thankfully, I screen very well, and always speak with new friends via phone, before we meet.  I read people very well, and rarely have been disappointed, and vice versa.  Also, I am fortunate, in the sense that I do not "have" to visit with someone to pay my rent.  I have a few gentlemen who provide a monthly allowance of sorts, and I rarely have requests for one hour dates.

   I adore gentlemen, so this profession comes easy to me.  I enjoy all aspects of entertaining, and I look at it as an "experience".  I think if more men were "gentlemen", and more ladies put forth the effort to make the date an experience; not a session, life would be better for all parties involved.  

Hugs and Kisses

Posted By: guybeingaguy

I will admit I a newbie at this but an important lesson was learned the other night .

I met a lady for the first time the other night . Had some reservations , a few reviews ( just a few ) were not that great . Yep , little head did the thinking and I took a chance .
The lead up texts and calls were then making me question Mr. Happy's intelligence for sure .

The date was by far the best experience I have EVER had - here or in the civie world .
What seemed to be the difference is how the lady, is , and has been, treated in the past .

I am a self confessed nice guy and I have missed many oppurtunities through my life, as women seem to play with us and then toss us aside . Not all of course , but the old saying nice guys finish last has certainly been my experience . Completely non caring assholes seem to keep their attention, and the old " bad boy " theme seems to hold true a lot !  My parents raised me right and my world wide travel to 3rd world countries has changed my view of all people - it is who I am , and I would, and won't change that !

But this provider is no doubt jaded - its clrystal clear, and in your face . It sucks, and I have compassion for all the lady's in this profession simply trying to please men and pay the rent . I put myself in their shoes ( as much as I can ) . The unknowing of the first time the door opens to a new client ( must be terriffying for a woman ). Her self image , and will the guy find me pretty ? The list is probably a mile long , but stop for a second and imagine.

OK now ........Combine that with a buch of assholes who you deal with just to pay rent . This lady has definatley seen her fair share of these assholes and is understandably jaded from it .

Fucking stop it guys !!!!  Your ruining it for the gentlemen that do exsist . Get your head out of your ass and take it out in another arena - maybe the gym , start a bar fight or something.

It took a good part of my time with this wonderful lady to let her see that she was being respected , admired and safe . I only had an hour with her, and it took 20 minutes for her to see she was appriciated , admired and safe . This is how gentleman should be making them feel is how I see it .

The date was simply incredible .......why ? because she felt at ease with me - a gentlemen ! It was returned to me ten fold and it was as close to a GFE as one could have. The conversation just flowed once the tension left her ,and the play time was off the charts for BOTH of us ! Was for me anyway

If your going to be an ass, than expect it back ,move on, and keep your damn reviews to yourself - you prbably caused the performance to be less than your liking . Just sayin ..........

Pllewase guys, it causes those who caome after you to have a tougher time than we ordinarially would .

Be a fucking gentleman !!!!

That is all , I will step off my soap box !

blah blah blah

Most of the gentlemen I visit with that reserve one hour dates, do so at the lunch hour.  Evening and weekend dates (when I do entertain over the weekend) are more than not, multi hour, dinner, or travel dates.  
Hugs and Kisses

Posted By: anchorit

methinks the hour appt. makes that difficult.

it might be ok for a first meeting, but I can't "get to know" a provider if all I ever do is jump from one hr. appt to one hour appt.

Posted By: BeautywithBrains

....be a gentleman.  Thankfully, I screen very well, and always speak with new friends via phone, before we meet.  I read people very well, and rarely have been disappointed, and vice versa.  Also, I am fortunate, in the sense that I do not "have" to visit with someone to pay my rent.  I have a few gentlemen who provide a monthly allowance of sorts, and I rarely have requests for one hour dates.

   I adore gentlemen, so this profession comes easy to me.  I enjoy all aspects of entertaining, and I look at it as an "experience".  I think if more men were "gentlemen", and more ladies put forth the effort to make the date an experience; not a session, life would be better for all parties involved.  

Hugs and Kisses

Posted By: guybeingaguy

I will admit I a newbie at this but an important lesson was learned the other night .

I met a lady for the first time the other night . Had some reservations , a few reviews ( just a few ) were not that great . Yep , little head did the thinking and I took a chance .
The lead up texts and calls were then making me question Mr. Happy's intelligence for sure .

The date was by far the best experience I have EVER had - here or in the civie world .
What seemed to be the difference is how the lady, is , and has been, treated in the past .

I am a self confessed nice guy and I have missed many oppurtunities through my life, as women seem to play with us and then toss us aside . Not all of course , but the old saying nice guys finish last has certainly been my experience . Completely non caring assholes seem to keep their attention, and the old " bad boy " theme seems to hold true a lot !  My parents raised me right and my world wide travel to 3rd world countries has changed my view of all people - it is who I am , and I would, and won't change that !

But this provider is no doubt jaded - its clrystal clear, and in your face . It sucks, and I have compassion for all the lady's in this profession simply trying to please men and pay the rent . I put myself in their shoes ( as much as I can ) . The unknowing of the first time the door opens to a new client ( must be terriffying for a woman ). Her self image , and will the guy find me pretty ? The list is probably a mile long , but stop for a second and imagine.

OK now ........Combine that with a buch of assholes who you deal with just to pay rent . This lady has definatley seen her fair share of these assholes and is understandably jaded from it .

Fucking stop it guys !!!!  Your ruining it for the gentlemen that do exsist . Get your head out of your ass and take it out in another arena - maybe the gym , start a bar fight or something.

It took a good part of my time with this wonderful lady to let her see that she was being respected , admired and safe . I only had an hour with her, and it took 20 minutes for her to see she was appriciated , admired and safe . This is how gentleman should be making them feel is how I see it .

The date was simply incredible .......why ? because she felt at ease with me - a gentlemen ! It was returned to me ten fold and it was as close to a GFE as one could have. The conversation just flowed once the tension left her ,and the play time was off the charts for BOTH of us ! Was for me anyway

If your going to be an ass, than expect it back ,move on, and keep your damn reviews to yourself - you prbably caused the performance to be less than your liking . Just sayin ..........

Pllewase guys, it causes those who caome after you to have a tougher time than we ordinarially would .

Be a fucking gentleman !!!!

That is all , I will step off my soap box !

Halfhour now that was a post!  Impressive.  Well thought out and well written.  

Now my only problem is I have this need to say something.  I cant stop myself, I am trying but if I dont say it I will bust.  So here goes...... "+1"