Get on here after a while and I'm getting PM's from people asking further details on sessions which in and of itself is not unusual, but the below are examples:

" you saw ******* right... did you fuck her?"
"she suck your dick right?"
"how much she charge for a BJ, HJ,... etc.?"

When did the thuggary begin on this site?  

Obviously I have no intention of responding to the e-mails in question but was a bit shocked since most people are more respectful in their PM requests.

Just venting... not need to PM or respond... but am curious if others have seen the same thing?

People looking up their reviews then messaging the person who wrote them. I feel that the reviews speak for themselves. That and what I do with one person will differ from the next so asking another person about what happened between us will not help you out a lot. Anything you need to know is on our reviews, GENERALLY.  

Many providers will not book with you if they know you have been giving away their dirty secrets to somebody you do not know on the internet. So I would strongly advise not to respond to or send these types of messages.

I have seen  similar things in PM's and on the boards. I would credit some of this potentially to the increase in popularity of BP, and in the increase in ladies from BP getting reviewed on this site. Those ads on BP, mentioning TER review, have most likely attracted a whole new group of mongers to TER.  

The boards have changed alot also. Years ago the boards were much more active and had a serious veteran presence where new guys and lurkers could learn.  

Nice to see you posting on the board again.

There are some guys who hobby, but prefer to not post on the boards for privacy reasons. They will sometimes write a review, but not expectation of having someone contact them for raw details regarding a written review.  

This was done to me twice in the past and the gentlemen who inquired I did not see them. Discretion is very important to many and this type of action will only stop guys from writing reviews.  

Just my 2 cents.

question and how it's worded. I got the following PM a couple of months ago:

"Im thinking of seeing XXXXXX!
Im really into a gorgeous face, with sexy eye contact, her pics look like she's a 10, but her reviews give her an only an XX. Im mainly interested in the face and great kissing and oral, Does XXXXXX fit the bill?
Thanks for your time and opinion."  
(I XXX'ed some of the words so not to embarrass the sender or the lady.)

I thought that it wasn't to prying so I responded with my opinion. Otherwise I wouldn't respond and ignore the sender.

Also, after hearing how many ladies read reviews before seeing a guy, I think it would be foolish not to write them.
JMHO

I have had several similar PM's. I do not mind them at all, as long as they are respectful request. If someone is asking about something like ladies face, or something else that is not obvious in the reviews or website, then I don't mind answering them provided they are respectful when asking.

I do usually look at their reviews to see who they have seen, before answering them though.

END OF MESSAGE

As follows:

 
As far as I know, my tongue still hasn't fallen off yet.

----- ******** wrote:
Hey, am a newbie and wanted to participate in DATY but am somewhat concerned on potential health risks...was all OK?

She seems truly fantastic!

Thanks!

******

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I have never posted a review and won't; don't need the publicity and don't want any inquiries. As every adult knows, YMMV. People are people, sometimes they click and sometimes they don't. What I may do for someone and/or what they may do for me doesn't always transfer to the next party.

When I PM:

1) All 10/10s or close to it, I'll PM one or two solid reviewers (multiple reviews of provides with multiple reviews) to make sure there isn't any coercion going on

2) Aldo pics, pics that look like they are taken from flattering angles, midriff covered, etc. I might PM a couple of legit reviewers to see if I can get a description that maybe they weren't comfortable including in the review...not a deal breaker for booking (I'm shallow but not that shallow) but I don't like surprises, especially high priced ones

Other than that I agree with you, review content is usually sufficient.

When I answer a PM:

1) Legit reviewer (see above)

2) Legit question about appearance or attitude...don't ask me about specific acts, it's in the review and just because she CIM'd with me doesn't mean she will with you, and vice versa.  A lesson I had to learn about YMMV, but a good one and I'm happier for having learned it.

Guaranteed I won't answer:

1) No reviews or one review where it's the provider's only review...sorry, you may be legit but I don't know you

2) Stupid and/or borderline illiterate PMs (the two usually go hand in hand)..."did you fuck her?"  To paraphrase Winston Churchill, that is shit up with which I will not put

I don't mind PMs about the following.

Accuracy of photos?
Age of provider?
If provider has gained a large amount of weight and hasn't updated photos?

I would never comment on services and would not ever respond to a PM asking questions about services. I feel that reviews are clearly written. Do your research but don't expect me to be your answering board.

if they are asking you about specific services and prices -  when you write a review it is semi-covered under ter's notion that these are fictional -  but a PM from someone trolling for this kind of information is out of bounds at best and the donut squad at worst....

Last night I had an email "YO", then I replied I usually don't respond to such vague emails. This morning same guy replied " I like cookies and cream ice cream , what's your favorite? You are pretty" I deleted the email.

 Yesterday I also received a text " Is Dis Sidney Starr? " I replied DIS??  He replied "This is Prince from Michigan". I then replied " DIS is not Sidney Star ".  

 Normally I just delete but messages like that make me just think "what????".

My guess is LEO taking a swing.  Read a story on a sting and it mentioned that LEO is very vulgar and raw to throw the provider off that LEO wouldn't be saying those types of things.

Then again, a pimp arrives on the TER board every now and then and its VERY obvious "they're not from around here".

 
GD111

I'm not into dudes, stop trying to throw shade, because I rejected your advances, its not going to work, it's only going to make the ladies who have not had the pleasure of seeing me, want to see me more....And if you don't stop, I'm going to expose you in places you don't want to be exposed.... "CEH" look it up if you don't know what it means......

 
I Love All You Sexy Ladies, Please Don't Judge Me, I will Get 100 years...

DaTrufe

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For this and several other reasons, I review and post very rarely.

Just save some words for when you need them, like for explaining and stuff....

 
This is the last time I will respond to you......

 
I Love All You Sexy Ladies, Please Don't Judge Me, I Will Get 100 Yrs.....

 
DaTrufe

I'm getting messages that go into excruciating detail about their exploits and asking me to respond in kind. The last one praised me for my skills (lol) and wanted me to list ladies and the services they provided.  
That's not going to happen...........
The "ignore user" button works well for this kind of message.

There just seem to be all these random PMs asking stupid questions. I just put them on my ignore list. TER's run may be coming to an end unfortunately. There is no longer decorum and I'm seriously considering just deleting my account. If you see some of the stupid PMs I get, it's amazing how some people just don't have boundaries. If you are asking me if I'll recommend a provider I've seen or a provider in the DMV, fine. Nothing wrong with that. But when you start asking questions about the session with a lady, I just block you. Read the fucking review, Jack ass