I reread your post and I am sorry I kinda messed around with you with my previous posts.
But seriously it is a hard question. Let's face it. The fact that she detests it is clear. But to help you get over it, I don't think anyone here can help. You are falling for someone who is.. forbidden. Since I know your post is not trolling, since you didn't use alias, I can only sympathize with you bro. This is also my worst fear. I am learning to keep things cool.