Never post publicly. I usually just ask a gent to send me a message from P411. That way, I can see their profile and know its really them. If they cant for some reason (at work, etc) I ask for their ID, then send them a message there, to be answered when they can.

Exactly, I want to know its really them. If they can't email me from there later then there's a problem.

If I dont hear from them from THERE I dont see them. EVER.

Why do some providers on P-411 request additional information after contacting them. This has happened to me twice now when I try and set up appointments through P-411. The provider still requests all my info for "screening purposes" even when I give them references, one of which was an adult film star. I'm on P-411 because I don't want to give out my personal info. I nearly got seriously burned once, so I never give out personal info anymore. I realize no one wants to get busted, or meet up with a psycho, but I'm on P-411 so I'm clearly not the cops and I have very good references, so I'm not a psycho either. Can you help me undestand this, I've missed out on some prime tail becuase of it and was wondering if there was some way to alleviate their concerns without divulging my info.