do you really call her 'Sugar' haha, ok that made me laugh tonight. Thank you, I needed that. If you ever write to me, please do NOT address me as 'Sugar' altho maybe you could get away with it cause of the giggle. LOL Ok you're the ONLY one who could get away with it. haha

when researching, We wonder OK, which rate is it? This happens often and there are questions about it here and on the newbie board.

The usual advice is go with the rate on her site. Other advice is choose the lowest you find and then ask her is her rate on ___________ (enter ad site here) correct?

In your case I'd say go with the one on her site.

She uses different names and photos on different sites when touring matching the rates of said sites. She says if you sell below the rate market expects people will avoid you and ifyou sell above rate for the area you will not be seen very often. She says the same thing for sites which is why she has a different price on P411  then Backpage. She is playing to price expectations. So I know what mrfisher talks about does happen.

For example:
FBSM:
1 hour - 200
2 hours - 150

That has to Rolfing. Of else...

Well said

On BP, I've seen rates as low as $30 (not kidding about this).

To me, upselling is enticing a client to come in the door, (at whatever rate that was determined to be in her ad, website, or wherever), and then start talking about how it's X dollars more for BBBJ, FS, DATY, or whatever.

This is exactly how the hobby was, by the way, before TER and the internet.  Now a lot of the hobby is upsell-free, and I like it a lot better.

The airlines are an example of business that has gone in just the opposite direction.  20 years ago you could check 3 bags, get a meal on board, sit in any seat in main cabin, use the overhead bin, etc.  Now nearly every airline is charging for some or all of those services.  I wish they would go back to the one price does it all.

your rates are not competitive they are pretty high if you wanted to have competitive rate to be a couple hundred lower.

I only have three places where I need to update if I change my rate my ter profile my website and if I so choose to run a BP ad.
however if I google my name angel exotic there are about 70 other add web sites that are using my photos they may all have different rates but if the person calls them its not me!
I googled angel exotic before and there's about a hundred different websites that have stolen photos of me on them and they are also using a separate phone number but my name and my photo on their website! I think running a special is just a cute word to put in your advertisements.
I actually think that's a cute and great and fun idea and I have done it and we'll do it again.
and as for saying I am anything like Walmart well if you looking assnigga seen last week Beyonce was shopping in there!
ain't nothing wrong with Walmart baby
hey if it's good enough for Beyonce I would go there myself
I consider my rates competitive, a majority of the other providers that are of my caliber in my area,
every single one of them is charging at least $50 more than me!
and a lot of them do not even offer half of the services that I do
(no CIM-no anal, ) and then they all have an additional fee for outcalls and some have additional fees for Greek'
I on the other hand do CIM I do Greek I do BBJ
I have no additional rates for outcalls or Greek
and if you look in the Boston top hundred a majority of the ladies charge 350 per hour with extra for Greek an extra for outcall
I just keep it simple and its 300 all inclusive no extra charge for anything
I am in a much different situation though I am very limited at how many incall I can do so for me it's actually
good for me to get some outcalls so where I really like getting out calls also I would not want to ask for more'
also Greek is good where it makes the appointment go faster so to charge extra for it when they're going to come faster is kind of silly
just offering it all inclusive is good because you're going to be doing a quick appointment anyways you look at it that way
so charging more for Greek when the guys aren't really going to last more than 10 minutes with the Greek!
I seen some of your rates are up to $1,000 I wouldn't consider you competitive with Las Vegas rates
I think Chloe Carter is there and she's one of the National Talk hundred and your rates are almost close as hers!
but its your life and you do what you want I just personally wouldn't call that can be competitive pricing
I would call competitive pricing taking a look at the people you are an equal to in popularity---
and then putting yourself at a slightly lower rate there for having a competitive rate
I do see you have 9th and 10th but I wouldn't say charging the same as Chloe Carter wou

How do I get guys to pull the trigger in my SD ad? Bbfs is a start but your old rate was too high for your age, review record, and "porn" status. This is not about age or a woman's right to set her rate. It's a market reality question.

I suggest somewhere between $2k and $75. If the bid for your hr is $100-150, your SD monthly stipend could be $1k, which prob is below your expectations.

and that is that you'll be the hottest MILF there ever was.

8o)

I don't think women in their 30's are the target market as far as fantasies and escorts go.
for me I don't feel that any women over the age of 30 asking for more than $300 is very realistic
there are blonde 18 year olds in Los Angeles taking it up the ass doin BBJ
and it's not because they are on drugs it's because they are horny little s*** and they're having a good time
no but in all honesty I just don't see where women over 30 can be charging well I've been to the $700 range and actually really people are paying it I just think it's kind of amusing.
!
the only thing I've ever heard for feedback from the other clients is that they go to see certain women and they get there and their faces wrinkly and its horrendous and their kids are there in the house and they're using a house in their son is there I have heard some really crazy stories about the guys going to see these women and they show up and they look like old grandmothers and some of them are grandmothers
1 guy told me he went to go see this lady and he got there and she actually had her son there!
talk about people being dumb hoe about people not using their apartments using your apartment if you are a bachelorette and your family already knows what you're doing I don't see a problem with that
the craziest story I heard was this guy telling me he went to this lady's private residence it was a house she owns and her son was actually there
and she was like oh that's my son he's just on his way out or whatever the situation was

inconsistent rates and why are you even looking.!
who cares if the other ladies have inconsistent rates on all the different ads what the f*** difference does it make
this is just a thread for everyone to go on and on about how they are so much better than ladies that run specials
this is just like opening a can of worms for every provider that thinks they are so much better than women who run specials who cares if women run specials doesn't mean your s*** don't stink because you don't
I have run plenty of specials before I think it's a great way to drum up biz  
if you are looking to do a certain style of appointment that day a certain style only like say you only want to do Greek appointments that day
you can post an ad that says Greek special today doesn't mean you're any better or less than anyone else and it does not mean you are Walmart
it's easy to cut other people down and put yourself up on a pedestal and act like you're better than everyone else because you run your business differently
ain't nothin wrong with a girl running a special its her body is her business doesn't make her any better or worse than the next!
'and as for Walmart I think Walmart is fabulous I actually went there last weekend if you saw the amount of stuff I got for 160 I got this awesome Wilson pink and white golfing cap that is actually sexy and really adorable
I think treating yourself is great once in awhile but I think it's also good to be frugal so you don't have to f*** extra money every week
you don't have to work a lot I would rather have tons of free time to cook and walk the beach and exercise I don't think spending tons of money on material things is a big deal once in awhile a nice trip to Walmart to be really cool
I think going on and on about how great you are and how everyone else sucks and you're above going to Walmart I think that is pretty freaking ridiculous

I am in a kitchen preparing my husband and children's lunches and getting ready to go into my caravan to drive the kids to parochial school of the street!
oMG how I feel for some of these women!
what a f****** life god damnit 45
what guys are going to see 45 year old women it is so unreal I never in my life thought that you could escort over the age of 35
just most of the guys I know make fun of me already they say over 28 it's impossible to escort
most of my clients tell me I better find something else to do soon because I am getting old and I'm not in the target market
I had this one client has a lot of money he's really cool but he used to say you know 27 or 28 is pretty much the oldest you can ask one of the guys I know don't think it over the age of 27 is acceptable to escort it's a very few and far between guys on here that are okay with it
you ask most guys they will say they're not interested in the older women

but a comma and a period could serve you well. I may be over 40, but what's more important to me is to know I 'have' my education love and this is merely 'additional' income because I am single and choose to be at my age. Please whatever you do, don't ever 'feel' for us as we have lived our lives as we chose to and are 'here' for very different reasons than most gals 20 years younger...there is a very different train of thought that goes thru the mind of a woman in her 20's and a woman in her 40's no matter how you butter the biscuit.    

While you feel for 'me' because I am one of the mature ones, and I am saying this with all seriousness and as a mother first and foremost and I'm sure a 'few' others here would agree...I am 'FEELING' for you more than you know. When I look at you young girls, I can't imagine what this will do to you in the 20 years AFTER the fact at my age when and if you are DONE. For you to choose to enter this world at your young age as you are just trying to figure out who the hell you are as young women, honestly scares the ever living daylights outta me for you. I honestly can't imagine what 'this' will do to you in 20 years...honestly, can't imagine, it boggles my brain. And if you think it WON'T have an effect on you, you are insane and naive. It most certainly will. It will change you forever Angel.  

Take care of yourself love and I hope that your beautiful life 'plan' goes into full effect for you as you dream and when you want it to. But I hope that dream in reality has some sort of backup 'plan' only because life does NOT always go as one plans it too...that goes without saying for almost everyone...and you need to be prepared for the 'alternate' route it will throw you when it does.  

God bless.

Damn, you are fkin nuts woman! Did you not just post that we should not worry about what others do? Now, you want to dictate how much a woman over 30 should charge? Let me clue you in... the reason some over 30 and even over 40 providers charge that much is because THEY CAN! A monkey can bend over and take a d*ck up the ass, but not everyone of them can write in complete sentences or make a lick of sense... you've more than proven that. You seem to think that all it takes to be a hooker is a hot ass and the willingness to spread your legs... maybe in your case, that's true, but it is certainly NOT what 'most men' look for. Maybe the guys on these boards, but not overall. Older women generally market long dates, ONLY. You can't book them for an hour even if you wanted to.  

Sounds like you're a little pissed off that your rate is low for Boston and over 30 providers are making double that. Most of them have an education, a real job on the side,  screen, and don't work from their homes for starters, or they very well would be slumming it with the bottom feeders. They are not here to move to a new RENTED apartment every six months, and have stability so being cheap is simply not worth being in this business.

Also, you brag about doing greek at no upcharge so I would hate to see your ass in 5 years honey. That's why most smart providers charge more for the shit, so they don't get all damaged by doing the deed every damn day. Wow, you are really disturbed. You just proved WHY so many older women charge more and work less... they are smarter than you lol. Gosh. Business 101, work smart, not hard.  

You need a mentor and a shrink. The ONLY reason any guy books with you is because you're somewhat hot, stupid, and pretty much naive enough to do anything they want, and for cheap. Truth hurts.

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It's just easier to call her a fkin idiot and be done with it. BTW Angel, both Chloe Carter and Edrienne Cole are over 35. EC is now retired from dick sucking, and you are still here begging for clients, running specials, and working from your home taking it up the ass for a mere 300... oh, and you had to start using BP. What happened? Was your rate not at one time double that? Oh, I know what happened... 30 guys posted about how you would call them and email them out of the blue begging them to see you! That's a FACT on the Boston Board for everyone to see!  Who are you to tell women they can't escort past 35, when at a younger age you've proven to be the biggest security risk on this board!  

If you had not started posting your drivel, your rate might still be what it was, and you would not have to beg people to get your rent paid.

END OF MESSAGE

nice HG...geezk woman. See, I'm a very nice girl The boys here think I'm a big meanie hahahahahahahahahha (and that annoys the shit out of them, I think I'll keep on doing it hahahahahahah)

where exactly is there even a business side of it I've always just posted in the ad a post a picture I get the calls its not a big rock it signs type of thing.

if somebody has a million gazillion different ads and doesn't even know which ad you're calling about well then that's obviously a problem in itself!
why would they have a million different ads up at the same time why don't just post one and take the calls from that one!
sounds like people like to complicate something that should have been and can be very simple
the only time I posted an ad on Backpage was when I lost my password to ter because I had switched emails I was passwords on the regular
I've had like five different emails this year
how in Gods name is someone going to have so many different as they don't know which one you're calling about and there's different rates on all the different ads??
where are you guys even finding these people the sounds absolutely crazy.
you actually have to tell the lady what add you are referring to because she has so many out with so many different rates?
sounds like a very complicated person
the person has a million different ads out why are you even calling them that sketchy in itself
if they're good at what they do they shouldn't need to have a million ads
you really good you shouldn't have to run as very often at all!

Posted price should be the posted price.    Regardless of the source.

Normally, I try to always take the high ground as Governor of MILF Island (as much as I hate to throw props to ADJ, thanks for the promotion) , but you need to learn something.    I 'l l   t y p e    r e a l l y   s l o w   and use small words as much as I can so you can get it.  

I  a m  o v e r  5 0.    I  l i k e   s o m e o n e   t h a t   c a n   l i k e  m a n y   o f   t h e    s a m e   t h i n g s   I  d o ....

One of my favorite things to do is take a lady to one of the numerous (that means "lots") four and five star resorts in my neighborhood for lunch, dinner, or a stroll around the grounds as part of our time together.
I want to be in the company of someone that can really appreciate it.  I want to share it with someone who might have stamp or two in their passport from similar places.  I want to appreciate the wit, charms, and sophistication that come from having been around the block a time or two.  And I don't want to stand out as the guy who is obviously with a call girl half his age.    

It's all a matter of personal taste and being with someone you are comfortable with.    

Capiche