If I am a regular with a provider and she tells you that its her birthday. And I try set something up with her and she tells me she going to be with family so we set something up for the day before. We have good time but next day I see her advertising am I allowed to be pissed off because I am.

Maybe she's advertising for the day after.

Tough one.  

This question might best be answered by her.  While you had ideas/plans for her, maybe she had ideas/plans also.  

I'm not sure being upset is right, but I would surely agree with disappointment.

you're allowed to feel anyway you want. but why would you be mad? You had a good time with her the day before. Maybe something came up. IMO don't take it personal shit happens.  

No matter how much fun you have, always remember it iaa a job for the ladies and we are only their meal ticket.

Yes I am finding that out I will be jaded soon.

Before I post anything,  my clients are more than a "meal ticket" to me. If a provider ever makes you feel that way, move on. That's not what you're paying for and certainly no way a human should be treated.

I'm no one to tell another how they should feel. What a provider does in her personal life isn't your business. Why she can't see you or isn't available doesn't matter. Plans could have changed, she could be booking for different days, her birthday plans could have fallen through. There could be a hundred reasons. Why don't you appreciate the fact that she thought enough of you to see you. Us providers are very selective. Look forward to your next meeting with her.  

Keep on mind that we have personal lives and responsibilities just like everyone else. No one answers to another human.  

Namast

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