“According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves  
...and when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other's sight, as I may say, even for a moment...”  
Plato - The Symposium  
 
But what do philosophers know of desire? To quote George Bataille, "Generally speaking, philosophy is at fault in being divorced from life."  
 
However, it is impossible to deny that Platos parable seems to resonate on a cellular level. This mythic anecdote is reminiscent of asexual cellular reproduction, binary fission. The cell starts out as one and slowly divide, losing the original whole, to become two.  
 
I'm curious to hear the consensus of the crowd on the matter. Although I do not believe in the concept of a soul mate, I do believe that our lovers bring to light aspects of ourselves that may have gone undiscovered if not for there presence... exciting stories of kinks or passion long unnoticed until someone came along and exhumed them

is because it's full of scheming, lying little weasels. Speaking in a broad sense about the general population of course.

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How do you know what size any of them are?

Maybe you can ask TER to block access to your public posts too?  

Easy solution to your problem...stop posting.  And stop sending out PM's/emails to the women who don't want to hear from you...ever!  That's a serious stalking issue!!

Here's a selfie of our last meeting...hey, how'd you get in there?

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Please don't bombard my inbox however...I did say please!

Which means it's not an alias...just a fake name.  I googled your TER handle name...and guess what, it's a fake as well.

Lot's of people have YOUR private info...maybe stop giving it out when asking to be screened?

I see you posted below that you've been harassed now for 2 years...and yet you now complain that someone has your personal info that YOU gave out.

But your solution to that problem (as only can)...is to threaten and harass others IRL.  These boards are fantasy...YOU unfortunately commingle the fantasy aspect of the boards with real world.  Obviously YOU have created more drama in your life than you wanted.  Now try being a real grown up and deal with your poor decisions.

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and I've always been civic minded.

I guess it's been retired?

Imagine anyone using an alias or brown envelope on an anonymous discussion board.

The nerve of so many here  LOL

No one wants your private information.  We don't care about you, except to the extent you stalk women here. In the past day you have stalked one provider and tried to get another's actual physical address.  Now THAT's stalking!
No one has ever tried to out you. Please stop your continual lying.  And the stalking.  And the drama...whining about harassment.  It's really not becoming in a male.  Or a female.

we change. or we are dead. so the "soul mate" exists only as a temporary illusion. I and my "soul mate may change in time.  

part of that change may simply be that one sees the other better for who they are rather than for who they are wished to be. part of that may be simply that each experiences live from different POVs and so drift happens, the bond weakens. the former soul mate becomes... well... former.

I think that if there is nothing complementary about a potential lover, nothing really interesting will happen. there will be no magic, no chemistry. with only one exception, I cannot think of a past love with whom communication seems impossible. although the relationship as a lover may end, traces remain.

I find nothing to regret in the impressions left upon me by my loves. while none were "soul mates" in the classic sense, all were deeply engaging. for that I can only be thankful. nothing was wasted.

in the Greek ethos balance and harmony, the complementaries are represented by the goddesses Dike, Harmonia, and Nemesis.  

Dike is a justice flavored balance represented by the constellation Libra and the balancing of opposites. Harmonia is perhaps sweet concord of finely tuned balance. Nemesis represents the balance of antagonism and revenge. so the different ways of being complementary may have rather different flavors: sweet, bitter, and savory.

non VIP no PMs please. email welcomed

It posted on the same thread as its master, supporting him. I believe the "owner" got in a bit of trouble for that.  Then again, he continually finds ways to break the rules, get in trouble and then blame others. He is remarkably consistent at that.

but I do believe in "fit." Sometimes people just mesh in a way that makes sex phenomenal; of the over 60 providers, and despite having great sex with almost all of them, I've only gotten to that epic "fit" with two of them, and one of them was absolutely ethereal...she still is, every chance I get. I'm not sure what Plato's stance on that would have been, but I'm sure he got down...he was Greek.

Oh and sorry for the thread hijacking above, I'm afraid you're a civilian casualty in the well deserved flaming of a wolf in sheep's clothing.

If not who continually 'likes' your lunatic posts? Hmmmmmmmmmm...........

And we have really nice hats.  It's so kewl.

I'd like to send you a dictionary with the definition of "stalking" highlighted. Given your recent actions juxtaposed with your accusations I believe you desperately need it. It would be my gift to you, and you're not even preggers!

By the way, I'm much too tall to be an eolf.

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but you sure made a mess on that board a few months ago, didn't you? Ran you out on a rail as I recall.

I can't find a board he hasn't bastardized with his drivel.

More like six.

She PM'd me that you'd asked for her real address. You are sick.

Remember this from Toxwell (btw, great nickname Nicky)?  He accused a TER poster in MN of stalking a provider, except it turns out that it wasn't that guy.  Oh, but Toxwell was so sure, even said so on this very board.  What a fucktard!  Take a look at my post just under the linked post, my comments stand today just as they did then.  

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I don’t believe in a soul mate, either, but I do believe in soul mates. Plural. Maybe this is like saying “one of my ATFs,” but I do believe we can have that complementary bond with more than one person. The catch is there’s no guarantee you’ll meet any of them. They could be half a world away from you. Or they could be right there in your own town, two or three social strata away. Or you could just meet them at the wrong time.

I was blessed to meet one.  

I don’t have any exciting or kinky stories of us and this isn’t the right place for the mushy details. But that Plato thing, that fission myth (I’d forgotten I’d heard that before), of finding your lost half? Yeah, that sounds right. Makes your whole mind shake. Resonance

stating him and people from the general discussion boards. Most of whom I have met and already know where I live so he wasnt makin an iota of sense.  

the email reads he is asking for my address because him and all the people on general discussion board wanna pool together and send me baby stuff.

 
          then a year ago he send me tons and tons of oms here he said he was a black guy from jersey.

then months later came the pms and in those now all a sudden he was saying he lives in Ohio.

                     iniki and mr fisher already know my address, as for any the other persons on here, mature gfe for example had any of them wanted my address they certainly would not send rod tid well to retrieve it via email they would contact me directly.  

so its a little scary to think he is looking for people he thinks as he thought I must not know any one here to try and get an actual physical address out of me.  

 
     I am not only grateful my building is filled with with state and local cops that reside here I am also greatful i have a home security system and surveilance cameras surrounding my apt and entire building.

 
people like that are the exact reason I had that installed. fuckin never ends

address because your all pooling together to plan on mailing things for my baby?

what do you call that? being honest and friendly?

iniki knows my address hun, mature gfe does too.  

what other people are you poolin and planning to all mail me stuff with on here that would send you to get the address hun?

i never met steph, but was once very close to a close male friend of hers lets just say, So i do not know here but was close with an associate of hers so to speak .

IF ANY ONE WAS LOOKIN TO MAIL ME THINGS FROM gd BOARDS MR FISHER MATURE GFE OR INIKI WOULD TELL ME HUN, wHAT PEOPLE ON gd BOARDS ARE YOU PLANNING THIS GIFT MAILING WITH EXACTLY DO TELL?

 
              I have never pmed you or given you any reason to think I want to speak to you, and hells no i would never give you my dam address! what the fuck! CREEPY

because you and every one on gd are comin together to mail gifts? hun i met and or have entertained half the guys on the GD so who the fuck are you talkin about?

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and over n over in the past year, He cant even keep his story straight, he tells me is from jersey then a month later he is now from ohio.

 
honeslty .I dont know how some these guys find the time to pm and email women all day do they work

I was woindering if you started something, where WE could send gifts for your baby."

insinuateing him and others on here want the address. When i already know most the guys that are regular posters here. And most them already know where i live and are trust worthy and some I known for 5 years now and they are polite and decent people.

 
so by him saying WE where WE can send gifts for your baby.  

  I began turning away baby stuff over a month ago sweetie. And some of it is even in storage unit I couldnt even fit it all in my condo. ! so day late and a dollar short, Every john in boston and every one in my fuckin city of boston MY HOME TOWN.

  has showered my unborn wittle man with all the best of everything,  

I am due in 4 weeks . so pick on some one who isnt about to be a single mom, and dont forget I live across the street from the state police baracks and my uncle is a sargeant, unless you want issues dont fuckin come around here. and i would never give you my godam address and shame on you for just being a creepy nosy prick!

female and try and creep her out.

i hope the mafia gets thier hands on em they will chop his nut sack off . real tough guys dont fuck with women or try n hurt em, maybe one day he will have to go eye to eye with sme one his own size like another man, these pussies that pick on women deserve to get beat.

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Rod she is not using your personal information or going to out you. In fact she really doesn't have all of that "personal" information like you act like she does. She is not harassing you by any means. She has right to respond to your postings. You are the one following her to other boards and posting after her to contact you immediately (over and over). Over a stupid email address? Seriously? That is not "personal" information. If she put you on ignore, get the hint and leave her alone. Anything you have done after that is stalking. She doesn't care about your information. Could you think for a moment about if she were to out you, how it would affect her? She'd lose a lot of money and ruin her reputation. She doesn't even have your personal information. Chill out and stop with freaking out. Really. Over an email address, WTF.

I see you pissed off Angel too. You don't go asking for girl's address unless you are meeting her and passed screening, let alone her real address. She made it clear your nice gesture was unwelcome.  

Don't go blowing up my pm either like you have in the past. This is now 3 of us ladies, including me, who you kept at it with after we all said to stop. That is just the ones who have said something and not including the guys. Stop crossing boundary lines with females who make it real clear that you need to leave them alone.

We all knew he was a weird guy but the extent of his illness is even greater than I had thought.  He's a danger to this community. Angel, I suggest you block all communication with him and let your local friends know about this creep.

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