Been a member of two boards in past 10 yrs. Sharing info was regarded as the coin of the realm. Recently I got back channel info that I shared. Since then, older hobbyist has been peppering me with messages saying I breached eitiquette by sharing info he gave someone else about a date with a lady. Help. Are there rules of the road posted here?
But I've instinctively followed a "no re-sharing" rule on BC info. I will ask for info for my own use, and I will share what insight I can, based on my own personal experience, with legit hobbyists (PM me and I don't know you, you'd better have more than a couple of reviews). What I won't do, and I hope no one does with anything I share, is tell someone "I heard from another hobbyist that she is/does this or that." If I haven't experienced it myself it ain't shared...that's what reviews are supposed to cover.
but I think the number one concern about sharing ANYTHING bc is the safety of both you and the gal!!
1. Don't share with unknown handles/aliases with no posting or review history.2. Never share personally identifiable info, or specifics of locations, etc.
3. Speak from your own experiences, not from hearsay or speculation. I also think courtesy to the woman is important. If she shares some special OTC time, a special package rate or a service that isn't on her menu... do you need to create that expectation for everyone and hassle for her
If something happens that feels like it's not her "normal" service I def don't share that, in reviews or BC.
If you only share info from your own experience you'll avoid most of the problems.
Plus, hearsay info spread around long enough can end up pretty different from the original info, like the old "telephone game" - and that's certainly not good for anyone.
Can't agree more and just chiming in to reinforce the point/s!!
Dudes, STFU!! I only share my experiences and never share "special" treatment a lady avails to me. What a lady does for one client she may not do with others....duh!!!!! So dudes please follow common sense protocol!!! Overall, STFU and share information ONLY that will assist a dude in determining if he wants to arrange with a lady based on YOUR experience/s. I would NEVER accept 2nd and 3rd hand intel via BC as gospel or cause for me to bank on in arranging an appointment!!Thanks all. Other thing I see are agendas of people. Few guys keep sharing details of dates with these ladies. Guy yesterday in respinse to my post volutenteered his buddy is seeing them in alexandria location today for 3 hrs . When I asked why shaering, he said he saw prior post by me that I knew jenna and gave me an email for vivian. It was odd so I'm posting it here. He either blew a secret or was trying to set me up. Again, agendas I worry are rampant here.
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"marcRtheover" clever handle..... i hope people take your advice and move on. I can only speak for myself but i have never wanted the attention received from this forum. I didn't post ads, I didn't solicit business. I didn't want or need it. There are those persons or person that seemed to throw my info out in response to "ISO" ads time after time. You know who you are and can stop doing that.
I have posted on this forum only once a few weeks ago to clear the air on some issues and will post for the last time today.
We as providers know the risk we put ourselves at and we all have our own reasons for becoming involved
in this business whether it be financially motivated or because we genuinely enjoy the friends we have made(in and out of the business, male and female). We can't always make everyone happy. If there is fallout we know it is a burden we will bear and must own up and take responsibility for. Backlash on a provider is one thing. More to the point of this post, to reach out to family members and friends of providers is simply unconscionable! You know who you are and what you have done and not only to me. If you had an issue with me you should have taken it up with "me". How does someone have a dark enough heart and the conscience to involve, harass, intimidate and turn upside down the lives of a provider's innocent loved ones?
I try to never speak ill of anyone and find good in everyone. I will assume responsibility for my actions but to the person that has done this unspeakable thing, you know who you are and to you I wish only the very worst and only hope one day you will be held accountable