old men.

When I left here 9 years ago  it was because I was uncomfortable for the ladies. Why? I was getting older and felt bad for them having to kiss that old man. Now after two visits, I'm getting that same feeling. The first lady said she like the way I did it but the last 20 minutes were in conversation she was just out of reach. The second, said she liked it but avoided quite a few, although I believe that may have been a communication problem. Both ladies put for their best efforts to please on the other part of the companionship.  

Now, I know some of the independent ladies, actually most, and some of the agency ladies kiss. The reviews are full of LFK, DFK and that's part if the GFE experience. I'm chronologically old, physically not so much, mentally I'm a teenager, hormones blazing. I like to kiss before, during and after companionship of another sort. I know some of the independents are probably great at what I'm looking for but references weren't available. So I went to a local agency and supplied info and they were also real convenient. I want more from a visit than just s-x.

Now I'm at the point of 'do I want to continue'. If I get the references to see the ladies I want, do I really want to put them through the 'old man' tongue wrestling. Fortunately between, running, weightlifting and wild s-x, I've pinched a nerve so I've got some time to think it over while I get that fixed.

The first time tends to be a bit awkward. The best kissing sessions come from regulars.

I saw a young Latina last night that impressed the hell out of me.  I too am not a spring chicken but keep myself in better shape than most twenty year olds. And like you I'm horney as hell too.
  Ive also run into the same problem with women that are a little shy when it comes to kissing. Not saying you don't, but oral hygiene is a must, just think you get many more MPG when your fresh.  
  That said, this little hot Latina greeted me like a horney  teenage girlfriend . They are out there my friend so don't give up....Btw see my last review for details. G

You're not "that old man", rather a sexy man who enjoys sex. And kissing is a natural sexual act, without which sex can never be lustful and wild. So its natural for a lustful, sexual man to desire it.  Age should never be criteria.  Just seek a woman who enjoys sex and all the trimings rather than a woman with a checklist.  
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Frederica DeNer

Forgive my cynicism, but we must remember that when you are putting down an envelope for a GFE, you are paying for the girl to be a very good actress, and that includes "wanting" to DFK.

That's what I'm really looking for, a regular. But, I've got to try some to find that regular. Also, there's a lot of tasty candy in this candy store. I would like to go back and see Juliana because I know it would be better and she deserves a better review. My review was just my experience and the reasons for it were mostly mine I believe.

Need to heal first. If I ran into her or someone like her right now I'd end up in the emergency room

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Possible lack of genuine chemistry? I don't see gents under 40 for this reason.  Just my. 02 xo

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I've followed you since I saw your first post. I love a good massage, not an amp, but a good therapeutic massage. And with what you offer, I'm surprised you have time to post.

This is a fantasy. My mind doesn't match my face. There aren't many providers close to my age and if I want to see ladies that were, I can do that in the private sector. I like a tight fit body and just because I'm 'old' doesn't mean I need to settle. Ten years ago I was still 'old' and had no problem. There are ladies out there that can give me what I'm looking for all I have to do is decide if I want to have them suffer through the 'old man'. I don't consider myself old, but I think others do. My confidence has been shaken.
Thank you for your .02, really.

What's the saying? "You are only as old as you feel you are."

I suspect that most people think of the "average" provider has a particular body type and is in her (early) 20's. I have a huge amount of respect for people who fall into that age bracket, but -- again, on average -- if you over a certain age, there can be difficulties finding intellectual and life-experience commonalities.  

If you are seeing agency girls with limited English proficiency, that further complicates things.

I think that eliminating some of those variables might lead you to an experience more in-line with what you're seeking. Give it a try.

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I want to think it's them...maybe they're not happy being in this line of work and it's not really you.
Kissing is an essential part of a date to me. Deep, slow, like it's gonna be your last time type of kissing.  
That's so odd the dates with them got more awkward ... should be the other way around.
I am so bummed you are wondering if you should continue. I really hope things start looking up.