Are there any ladies who would actually prefer to give a BJ, over receiving DATY?  
Let's say for the sake of this discussion that the DATY, is above average quality.

I could be wrong, but I am just finding hard to believe

i swear.. if women knew the power that they had over men when they are giving them blowjobs!!

im not a control freak in that way or anything, but i just love knowing that.. man... i am winning at that moment!

i have this whole thing like "penis worship." i love, love, love it!!!!

I love giving DATY, especially in a 69.  Would that be possible so we both "win"?

69 is not my favorite thing on the planet. Between the balance and trying to focus on you and trying to enjoy what you're giving to me.. I would much rather enjoy them separately.

I do it. I don't "hate" it, but it's kinda like some Kama sutra positions.. When you are focusing on other things outside of the one thing you should be focusing on.. Well, too many distractions don't make it as much fun for me.

Alyssa, I thought I was the only one that thinks that way! It is all about balance.  

I have my own agenda when giving, and prefer to please for at least 20 mins, if he can hold out that long, just to get warmed up. I like to vary technique and give attention to all of the male anatomy. I luv the feel, tastes, textures, soft and hardness of it all. And of course the build up and working for the money shoot! I am enthused by DATY, and am very sensitive, but every time someone goes down on me, about 5 mins in, my mouth is lonely which is not fun. I am a big fan of 3 somes for this reason, more things to do and more places I can use my mouth! But nothing gets me wetter than worshipping a nice cock... Yum, yum and yum!

20 minutes?  That reminds me of a head nurse I used to visit...
Where do I sign up for this treatment? LOL

Yes, I have been timed so I do know this is a fact... Ha!  

Gosh before I provided, I had to have a FWB just for me to give BJ's to, I craved it constantly. Oral fixations are real

For occasions when round two is happening, then 69 is cool, because I don't have to worry about finishing g too quickly.

Charlie,

I like how you think!  May end up changing my style due to your insight. Thanks!

I do not favor 69 for the exact same reasons you stated. When I am concentrating on pleasing a woman, I don't need any huge distractions. Lkewise, I really enjoy just laying/sitting back and savoring the experience of receiving a good bj.

But to each his own.

D.

Like giving oral very much. It's a huge, huge turn-on BUT

Anyone who says they prefer it over DATY has obviously not seen you yet

Also not a fan It's confusing and I get dizzy LOL

I'm a newbie, hi lol & I must agree. I truly love giving blow jobs, I love the taste, texture & stiffness as well, it gets me soooo wet! Ughhh just the thought but I have a problem.... A lot of men ask for gfe which I've learned is basically kissing and giving bbbj... How can I kiss/give bbbj if I don't know whether the client is clean if I can't get recent test results? I would love to give bbbj, multiples at the same time if I could but how can I get clients who won't mind getting tested? I also would love to do PSE!! But you know.... Help

If you are thinking or have been told that being in the hobby requires unsafe or uncovered practices you are mistaken.  

Yes there is an element of risk in what goes on, but every lady choose what level she is comfortable providing. Most of us in this lifestyle of providers and hobbyist get tested frequently and play safe as much as possible. Some girls don't kiss. Some girls don't BBBJ. Some girls are just YMMV and it is all ok.  

Newbie board has a lot of good info and you can search various subjects. I think once you are clear on what you'd like to provide, the worry may lessen. Good luck! DC guys luv sexy and willing newbies!

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...some days I just really need something in my mouth but since I swing both ways it can be a dick or someone else's pussy.

'K bye.

Thank you but I cannot find the newbie section

It is under the TER General Boards -->  FAQ for Newbies

Having seen Alyssa Marie, I can attest to her passion for BJ versus DATY.  I am a huge DATY and she warned me in advance that she's more of a giver then a receiver.  It was absolutley true and still a very very good session.