It is NOT okay to send explicit emails without identifying yourself!  I made the mistake of saying "who are you?" and now he is threatening to post reviews on all sites.  I have notified TER support but if anyone else has any ideas, please let me know.  All I know is his email, nothing else.  I try to keep my emails short and sweet and prefer flirting in-person to minimize the paper trail.  I have been so blessed to meet so many wonderful people in this hobby.  So sad, there are a few creeps out there!  xoxKay

Is it "sunnyday" something?
He was totally rude, posted a fake review on my profile and took 3 weeks of hounding and talking to ter and following their instructions.  

They say they don't allow fake sounding reviews, but I still have 3 other false reviews on my page.
Fight it, hard. Send them links to screenshots of the emails. Prove to them.

I don't think I can post his email but it starts tubeinpipe...
He hasn't posted yet but threatened so I thought I would be pro-active and tell TER support that he might.

I ignored it as I usually do with trolls and haven't heard anything since. Good luck!

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I have had those letters as well along with threats of smearing my reputation onsite.  Makes one feel quite vunerable.  I just let the site know along with a copy of the email...after that all you can do is hope for the best.  Most of the men i meet are wonderful, but there is the occasional troll who has some sort of sick and/or angry approach towards evolved amd sensually open women.  Deep breathe!

I'm sorry that you ladies have to deal w this and other BS.  i know it might come with the territory but still.  I've always felt you while treat others like you want to be treated but there are always the nut jobs out there.  Speaking of nut jobs ... 🤔😏 ... well hopefully you've reached your annual limit of losers.

Take care, be safe and enjoy the weekend