wow! thanks for the shitty review!
didn't your mama teach you any manners? if you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all? I do appreciate that you weren't nasty with the numbers. i'm a real person and struggle to bring what I think you want. if you would have told me that squirting or a big clit, or my age or demeanor wasn't what you were looking for, I would have totally not tried so hard to bring what I advertise to the table! sorry for your issues at least I tried-EOM-
Missy, lighten up. By nearly all accounts, you are hot and fun. Why highlight the review? In any event, it's a review board. Implying that he should "hold his punches" to be mannerly is not what board is about. Candor is key. Move on sexy!
I'm just being a dumb silly gal...
sometimes I just can't help but feel ridiculous.
moving on. who wants to take on this bic pen clit and deep raspy voice? (at least I shaved for himhahahahaha) all smiles and giggles
Actually , I did not see this as such a bad review. I mean everyone has their "type". The reviewer clearly indicates that you were kinda of an experiment for him as he is trying to wean off the 20 somethings. He is simply a guy who really likes the "youngins" but feels guilty about it. I suspect he would have written a similar review for any lady he might have seen that was over 35.In fact, I have a feeling he did not enter the situation with high expectations. There is little one can do to overcome a lack of chemistry.
In a way Missy, I think the review narative is more about him than you. I don't think you need to be defensive , upset or overly concerned. You are who you are and as far as I can see that is plenty good nuff for the vast majority of gents who know you.-- Modified on 10/14/2014 6:55:54 PM
by coming to the boards complaining about a single review, you attract more negative attention than anything... This turns off most guys than anything...In fact most of the smart guys (your's truly included) like uneven reviews. Last thing we want is cookie-cutter 10/10 list. That's my DNS list right there..
We really don't give a shit what perspective of one guy is when it comes to these things. Certainly not mundane shit like she had a raspy voice.. Big fuckin' deal. Now if its some crazy ass shit like "She pulled a Glock on me..." Or "She seemed to have a nice smile in the beginning, but when she removed her dentures, my erect penis retracted back into my body. As a result of this trauma, I have lost all interest in women, and need to get me a bum chum"... Then that can be damaging.. That's all I've to say...Now going back to O's @ KC game and enjoying the last left beer...-- Modified on 10/14/2014 10:06:07 PM
its an honest review, and pretty fucking hot at that. The dude makes it very clear that he's writing from his own frame of reference. In fact, judging by the other responses, the only person in the thread that thinks it's a shitty review is you..
This was just one so-so review, and not many guys would have focused on it.
It was indeed much more about the reviewer and his preferences than anything lacking with the you Missy.
He had one line which was over-the-top (how to hold back from cumming), and that seemed mean-spiriited IMO, but honestly, I think that reflects more on him than you.
Agreed with above, didn't see it as a bad review. Honest reviews like that are helpful and didn't turn me off at all. If anything, piqued my interest.
Reviews that are 'bad' for providers fit into two categories. 1) Not as advertised or 2) Bad attitude/rushed service. The review fit neither category
Julia, I know I'm not your favorite TERite but I think we are close to sharing the same opinion.
Like I said the review was more about the dudes deal than Missy's.
He prefers younger women
He knows she is older
He dislikes squirting
He knows she is a squirter
ETC.......
He just was not capable of appreciationg it. When I read the review it appeared to me that Missy made every effort to accomodate his request. Then she was surprised to see a less than appreciative review.
Can't say I blame her for the disapointment but please reread the subject line to my comment.
From a Provider's perspective they guy is a jerk
From this hobbyist perspective he is a guy who unwisely booked with someone simply not his type and then wrote a crappy review that most of us will disregard . He is like the dudes that book with ladies with enhancements then bitches in the review as to how much he prefers the all natural look. I don't understand why men do this.
Not defending them Just don't think it is anything Missy needs to lose any sleep over.
Nor you.
-- Modified on 10/14/2014 7:52:51 PM
You have a solid reputation and are a great provider. We can't please everyone. Plus some guys have critical writing styles, and some guys are not nice. Lol Others are great. Point is we are going to come across many types of men being that we are providers. Just do you, be your best self and don't worry about it. No point in highlighting it as another had said above. Plus the good reviews are the ones that matter and count. One or two does not really make a difference. In fact sometimes it makes the reviewer look bad and not the provider.
I do my best and I don't let what others say, good or bad get to me. I am a provider and I treat people kindly and well and I am fun and I know I am a good person. At the end of the day I am happy with myself and what I do. You just can't get caught up in reviews and what people who don't really know you have to negatively say. Sometimes, no matter what we do, there are people who will find something to pick at. Nature of the business.I feel pretty dumb for the rant.
silly girl! now give me a little spankingFor what it is worth, Missy is the coolest, most accomodating, fun woman I have ever met in this hobby and there is no way she could ever deserve less than 9's or 10's so I understand her being frustrated with the reviewer. It is just not an accurate representation of her.
you're absolutely right! thank you!
i'm gonna put on my big girl pants and get out there and fuck the world! one dick at at time (maybe 2 or 3 at a time) hahahahaha
I really should think before I get all quippy with my keyboard..
I just acted like a crybaby brat. boy do I feel dumb
there were a few unnecessarily mean things that struck a nerve and I inappropriately lashed out...
i normally only meet with gentlemen (usually naughty dirty sexy gentlemen).it was my bad for not reading further into his past reviews. guess i didn't do my homework very well. really, drama is so not my thing
You seem like a cool lady - who is passionate with her work and feelings - I can certainly understand and appreciate that!
"When you find yourself in a hole, quit digging"
Unlike other providers, the ones who get labeled "BSC" you realized that you were overreacting a bit, took a deep breath, and owned up to it. Kudos to you, although you did deprive me of some fun. I was about to paint you with the BSC brush, but you proved that you don't deserve it. My sense of fair play won't allow me to bash you for a momentary lapse that you have already corrected.
I think this thread should be required reading for all providers who want to bitch about a review they think is beneath them, this could have been a real train wreck, but you caught yourself in time to save yourself the grief that comes with getting a rep as a drama queen. Good for you, and don't sweat this review, no one who reads it in its entirety who is your type of client in the first place is going to be dissuaded from seeing you because of this one review, and the guys that want a 25 year old aren't, and shouldn't be calling you in the first place.
Missy I want you evn more now!
Emotional Woman are always better lovers! I need to see you Missy stat!
!!! Ooops, I guess that's why I've never given a 10/10
You can start with me, anytime sweetheart. Oh yeah, you already did and it was wonderful!!