First time it happened to me since I started the hobby in 2012. I'm actually feeling kind of wounded by it. I thought communication was good but she up and changes her P411 and gives me no response to a change of plans. I even bought wine, chocolates, and booked 2 hours.  

Someone pat me on the back and tell me I'll be OK. *sniff sniff.

Her loss I'm sure. I'd swoop in to be your knight (lady?) in shining armor (lingerie?) if I could!

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And, you'll have $300 left over for a nice dinner, or an hour somewhere with an incall...you got the goods already!

Has happened to me a couple of times. I generally look at it as an opportunity to save toward a new laptop or iPad or phone or something.

Take care.  

Give her a few days to tell you what happened. Life gets in the way sometimes.  

Huh. How'd you know I love scotch and cigars?  

Yes, you're on point with the advice. I need to shift my perspective. I've gotten some kind notes and am less the wounded member now.  

Much appreciation to this fantastic community.

Enjoy your weekend all!

I bought one that went from $100 to $640 for a $530 profit (2.5 month holding time). Of course now is the tricky season because they say go away in May with the stock market.

Always makes me feel better. But if you want to cry, I do have some tissues.  

It's not too late, hope something cums out of it, and her loss truly.

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Happens to everyone in this hobby world.

I can attest to this first hand!
Indeed, she truly is the perfect salve for a wounded heart!
(okay - very sappy, but still true none the less)

You folks should have been here B.C.--Before Computers. Hobbying was flying by the seat of your pants. All you had were the Yellow Pages under Escort and the classifieds section of a newspaper. You called, made an appointment, and hoped for the best. After one provider with extra pounds and green teeth, and another who was gorgeous but only wanted to talk, I hunkered down and waited for the Internet Age. Good things come to those who wait.

Man you cats be killin me with  this I got stood up, That's why you got stood up, I'm on her side, she wasn't in the mood for bitchassness. All this ass out here, wanting to be stretch and you running to TER to puke bitchassness.....She didn't choose you lame, cause you leaking bitchassness!!!!

 
I Love All You Sexy Ladies, Please Don't Judge Me, I know I will get 100yrs +4.....

 

DaTrufe

Look, it sucks when the date doesn't materialize. But, that's the way of the world you've CHOSEN to enter.  

Keep doing your homework and read the reviews for any indication of flakiness. Use your own judgment when it come to reading the communications.  If you "review the tapes," I bet you can see a change in the way she was communicating with you that was likely a missed red flag.

Give her a break, though. You never know what might have come up in her life. Give her a chance to explain. You'll never know the whole truth. Maybe she just didn't feel like meeting. If so, she'd be loathe to tell you--but, be grateful that she didn't show up and just flake out in the first few minutes. Way worse deal there.

Take care.

I'm seriously amused at the range of responses here. One thing I can always count on is being entertained by the wide range of responses and thoughts expressed on here and other boards.  

This message has served its purpose for me and I'm absolutely tickled by the weight of some of the tones in this thread.  

Cheers people. Here's to the carnival. :-

It will not be the last time, deal with it and learn.  Been there and done that.  Same thing, scheduled a time and place, but I showed up and she didn't return calls, texts or e-mail.  Heard from her a week later and she apologized but seriously a week later.  I would check to see if the P411 location matches your town from now on.  I had another provider, schedule a time but the place was not set.  Checked P411 the day before and she had a different town than the one we were to meet. Tried to contact her and she never returned calls, texts or e-mails.  So my friend its going to happen, deal with it and move on.

sports section of the daily paper in the 70'. It had a picture of a young woman smiling in a one piece bikini.

good sport for taking all of the crap thrown. Just remember, there are hundreds of beautiful ladies out there willing to fuck your brains out for "compensation".  

Safe hobbying.

Some people actually think you really NEED the advice they give.  

Whatever...

Many of us have been there, done that. Some go as far as having a Plan B as a backup.