So everyone has their own tastes in women and sometimes a guy who likes thick girls will see a girl who he *thinks* is meaty from her pics but turns out to be alot thinner and he will put a negative review of her looks saying she is way too skinny.......
Than you will have the fellow who likes Spinner type girls and will see a girl who seems to be quite bigger than her pics and he will say how *fat* she was ect.......
So yes there are different strokes for different folks and some guys do tastefully say *If you like thick/juicy girls this one is not for you* or something to that effect......
Than you will get the guy who says some crude and nasty things that are quite hurtful.
What is your take on this? Thick or thin, everyone has their likings but is there a need to call names and be nasty (I have seen where a guy has said a girl looked anorexic and sickly and she wasnt, she just has a faster metabolism)
Everyone is attracted to a type, but that doesn't necessarily mean that a person finds only that type attractive. I have my personal preferences although I have had some wonderful times with providers that weren't exactly what i, in my imagination, thought was the perfect woman, physically speaking. for me at least, personality and attitude make the person more than the looks. if a provider has a nice personality and a great attitude i know i will find her attractive.
...every woman is beautiful in her own way. Thick, thin, tall, short...it doesn't matter. It's in the eyes and the smile...
Hello group.I have been a long time member and wuuld like to to begin participating.I personally feel that every woman is bueatifull in some way.However,there is always that certain body type that will send you over the edge.I lean towards the thick curvey type.If i were writing a review on a slim sexy provider i would focus on those things that make her lovely.
The looks get a client interested but for repeat business attitude and performance are key. Providers use their physical attributes for advantage over another provider. Sometimes a client will have a taste for a skinny woman other times he will have a taste for a heavier woman. A client wants to feel that the provider is not in it for just the money. It is nice to find a provider who truly enjoys her work. The ones that will be honest with you and tell you that they are a freak/and or a sex addict. You can also tell by the creativity of the sessions.
a guy was "decieved". No one likes to see what they like on the box, only to open it up and get something totally different.
xoxox
Anik
IMHO, anyone who descirbes another person in that way is classless, I love thick women, Guys if you meet someone that are not what you expected, you could post......"she was not what I expected, a little thin/thick for my taste."
In the same respect raising the issue of a ad and or picture that is misleading should be addressed in a respectfull manner, unless its a rip off than don't hold back.
my 2 sense
I personally would rather see someone on the thinner side rather than on the thicker side. But this is personal preferance. Not saying thicker women are not fun in bed or aren't awesome people but if it was my choice I would opt for the thinner ladies.
as a hobbyist I prefer my women a little thicker (between size 10-14). Not that there arent some gorgeous slender providers out there, but like Spiro said, it's a matter of personal preference. Saying that I would never say anything derogatory about a provider, I would just simply say she was a little slender for my taste which lets people know it is my own personal opinion which they can take or leave as they so choose. It is not necessary to be vulgar and rude about comments especially since it is your own personal opinion, not necessarily 'the truth'.
Now on the flip side as a provider I am on the thicker side. I have recently dropped considerable weight and am smaller then the photos on my website. I actually thought this would be a pleasant suprise to most clients as I am much curvier though smaller and healthier by far. However, recently I saw a client who said he was greatly saddened and disappointed that I was not the same size I was in my photos (I might add the pics are 9 mos old).Who knew someone would be disappointed that a provider was smaller? He thankfully didnt write a review as I'm sure it wouldnt have been nice, but also has not seen me again. As a provider I think clients sometimes forget we are women first and that we have feelings and that when you say something nasty it hurts. If I'm not your cup of tea, fine, say that, but there is no need to be malicious and hurtful to the beautiful providers who just might not be your 'it' girl.
best times have been had with ladies described as having 'baby fat'. Hate to see descriptions that are 'mean & nasty'; very seldom ever justified (as someone said only/maybe in R.O. situation).
I admire women on the smaller side, but I am hopelessly sexually attracted to thicker women, they have provided some of the best sex in and out of the hobby.
In my humble opinion, it's all about proportion..
I like both and thin women as long as they are curvy..I don't care for thick ladies with no waistline or thin ladies without hips..34,24,34 can be as mouthwatering as 36, 28,40.
Just me two bits...
Milton..
"Livin and lovin on the eastern shore"
To be more exact: firm tissue.
Nobody like saggy/cottage cheese dimples, but a thick firm thigh will kill a guy every time especially behind/below the ass area. I paid my stripper dues my last year at college and trust me the skinny poles had nothing on a nice tushie.
Secondly is the breast-waist-ass-ratio. The more severe the more severe the whiplash.
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Only for established regulars. Outcall or touring incall ONLY for all others. Oh well. Almost enough to make me wish I had lived in NYC...
BTW, some heavy duty shit you are into. I'm no stranger to any of it. My former mistress used to do most of that shit (and some other things) as well. Guess I'm just getting too old.
Now, be my mistress and find me somebody I can master over in similar fashion. Then I'd be as happy as "* ~\) &# `(@/"! Cum to think of it, that is EXACTLY what I have been called on another board. TWICE in fact...
Doesn't mean that my skills are used that often. I like light play too. Boring vanilla lofat sex I am not into, although a good missionary pounding will get me off in 2 secs flat, go figure. I have a good friend coming out of retirement in NYC that is the best sub in the world in my humble opinion. Ponz, I do let some of my favorite clients dominate me, but only if they are really good at it: ex. rope tie freaks that have their knots down pat. Most good BDSM relationships have some switching back and forth. All good dommes have been subs once, and all subs really control the play. Think about it: an uncooperative passive aggressive sub will totally kill a session. Similar to the providers that once you pay say: oh, and BTW I don't do this and I don't do that. Better to have stayed at home and invested in good porn. See ya when I get to DC!
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I have several black T-Shirts like that one. A couple have the S&M's. From a distance, they look like the candies. Another one says: "I've done things you're terrified to even FANTASIZE about" on the back. My favorite on the front simply has: SICK FUCK....
All I ask is the advertising matches the package - - period. That way decisions can be made base on the information provided and no one will be disappointed.
For me it is the girl. Thick or thin is not the issue, she needs to attract me as I see both. btw you still look great.
Nubian
I can not agree more with the truth in advertising. I usually make my choice based on the whole package the review, the picture etc. I do not appreciate being misled. I have had a provider show up who was at least 40 pounds heavier than her picture and I was jsut as dissapointed as I would have been if it were a bait and switch. I have been with both thick & thin and have had great times with both... however when I am misled it ruins the whole experience.
Thanks.....I see you still have that sweet disposition. Not often do I see you post but when you do it is always something positive or genuine...
I still remember a phone call late one night when someone was too scared to meet the voice behind the phone...(hint, hint)
Good to see your in good spirits and your persona hasnt changed......
Yasmine
P.S. Yes scared I was......
...which is why I try to downplay those rumors.
I heard this wasnt a *rumor* but a well known fact....;-D