What is everybody's thoughts on the infamous p2p massage? I recently saw a highly reviewed lady that has a strict screening process and this was part of her repertoire. Never had it done like this before and there was lots of contact. Now I'm kind of worried about letting it happen.
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So... I don't get your point. Risks invovled: herpes, gential warts, and other STI's with skin to skin contact and body fluid exchange. Other than that it felt really good right? Of course it did. No need to worry now, thanks for owning up for your actions. If everyone did, there maybe less infections being spread. Take control of your own body and your health, no one else will. Stay safe!
....I don't rub my privates on anyone's uncovered junk during a NURU massage.
No not at all what I'm saying. Certainly didn't get taken advantage of. And I agree never do anything you will worry about later but unfortunately sometimes get caught up in the moment. To my completely untrained eye there was nothing outwardly apparent to be worried about but obviously that means nothing.
And we all "look clean." Whether you want to believe there is a risk or not because everything "looked" ok or excuse it because "you were in the moment" are a lot of famous last words. Not trying to be overly preachy, but I have been a trained HIV/ STD counselor and there are no excuses for risky behavior. Either take your risks and own them, OR learn from it, educate yourself, vow to be safer "in the moment" and pray for the best. Get tested regularly and see your doctor and ask for a herpes blood test because it is NOT in the regular panel of STI testing and is NOT considered routine unless there has been suspected exposure.
If it is in fact riskier....then you and all the traditional escorts should charge less than Private View girls. That's a staple for them.
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the odds of passing HIV for example, through the most risky behavior (unprotected anal intercourse) is 1.4% - with unprotected vaginal intercourse it is much, much less....
I am all for using protection for more reasons than STDs - but most people go around paranoid about this for no reason it's really very simple - if you shave (which I do not advise) do not do so within two days of an appointment to lessen the risks of transmission through micro abrasion and - wash before and after. 'stripper slide' is very very unlikely to harm you.... and highly reviewed providers are generally less likely to be a transmission vector than some bit of stuff you pick up in the local club.....-- Modified on 8/19/2014 9:59:07 PM
Thanks for the discussion. Hardest part for me will be the wait over the next month plus before I can be reliably tested. No more slide for me. Although I think it's interesting ladies criticizing me for allowing slide/contact give out bbbj. Certainly different risk but still risky.
And those were given. I wouldn't criticize whatever actitvity you chose to partake in, just know what's going on, take ownership of it, and be responsible.
To the second part of your comment, is it risky/ irresponsible to give BBBJ? Depends on who you ask. I for one luv giving BBBJ. Anyone that knows me in the hobby world or IRL know I am down to give a BJ anytime and with anyone I chose. Knowing that this is what I like to do and chose to do with frequency, I own my risks. To do something that you aren't comfortable with the consequences is foolish and irresponsible. I take what precautions I can and I get tested very frequently. I have sucked many a dick sometimes with CIM/NQNS included over many a years, and to date, nothing adverse gone down in my hobby life or IRL. At the end of the day, I don't know, but at least I can be okay with that