Does anyone know if dating sites are a good/safe place for hobbying

Check this thread, I just joined Seeking Arrangement and I may be done with the hobby if I can find a few girls there like the two I have met so far.

Yep, I was the one who started that thread.  I haven't found great options here in DC.  But I visit Boston often and MAN I hit the jackpot.  Hot kinky Asian grad student at a university in Cambridge.  More chemistry with her than any woman save my wife. Pricey but hour for hour a better deal - we spent four hours one day and three hours the next so actually half the "typical" backpage rate and 1/3 the typical VIP rate.

Thanks so much for you guidance lol! I have met 3 wonderful ladies (2 in person) doing an overnight tonight for a total of $550 including hotel with a hot 21 year old

Also have had success on the road, as well, in my case in San Fran/Bay Area since I travel there regularly.  Works well to line up SB to enjoy an extended date while out of town.  Chemistry has been great and prices for extended dates far less than typical rate for provider for same.

Glad it worked out well for you, too!