Is there a site with listings of all the different
phrases used.

Thanks

By phrases, I assume you me abreviations.  Check out the FAQ for Newbies discussion group, it has a whole bunch of info.  I did find a more detailed one then this, but this might get you started.  If I can remember where I put the link I'll post it later,

Our dear moderator had provided a link before that seemed to be helpful.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewMsg.asp?MessageID=7778&boardID=33&page=4

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=9622&boardID=19&page=

Yup, these are the ones I have. I just didn't have the link off hand to provide him.  These are at the best I've seen for this type of discussion group.  Thanks to our moderator for the help!!!