Explorer, has always touted this statement.  Going to TJ occassionally in the old days, I would not have believed it.  You will only see this if you go to TJ a lot and speak a fair amount of Spanish where you can talk to the chicas and get more amount of truth from them.  When I first went to TJ, I didn't even believe that you could get a GF session or that bareback sex was being done.  I said, no way!

Now going to TJ a lot, I realize how wrong I was.  GF sex is easy to get (it really is) as is bareback BJ's, bareback sex and even anal is available for the same price as a regular session!  For those that rarely go to TJ you will not believe me and it will be much harder to find the good stuff because you just don't go enough.  That is  okay because when I was in your shoes (only going to TJ twice a month) I didn't believe it either.  You just have to know the scene, go to TJ a lot, and speaking Spanish definitely helps.  Less of this goes on in AB and CC but it does once you get past the hottest chicas who give the same type session and go up a lot.

The more I go to TJ, the more I realize that almost every TJ chica is hooked up with some dude in TJ who is her boyfriend, husband or pimp. Many of these chicas just hate to be alone. Almost all of them are or quickly hooked up once they are in TJ. Remember that most of the chicas are not from TJ and far away from their home towns, families and many times their kids.

More and more I am seeing mongers falling big time for chicas. It is crazy because these guys are shelling out big bucks and then these chicas fuck their TJ boyfriends for free. Many of these TJ chica boyfriends are big time losers. Some mongers really think that the chica is really into them. Not really. But every monger is getting the same or nearly the same type of session that they are. I see so many cab drivers driving around with GF chicas in the front seat or just chatting to chicas in front of the bars the chicas work at.  I have seen other mongers believing their "novia" isn't doing other guys while I know other guys doing the very same chica.  

I also understand there ae some lonely type mongers who misinterpret a chica "liking" them.  Everytime I think I'm special, reading a report of another monger getting the same type session, snaps me back into reality.  In my mind, getting a better price for the same type session makes me feel a little better.  Stupid, but I know guys paying huge sums for more time with chicas and I know this isn't necessary.  

Having your own room in the zona, speaking Spanish, flirting, drinking with a chica, dancing and joking around, etc. gets you much better deals at the regular session price.  If you have a good personality, use it to your advantage.  The flamers will say no way but try these things and it will work. If it's the wrong chica, just move on.  The more you do this the more GF sessions you will have at a great price that is acceptable to the chica.  It's worked for me and there is nothing special about me and I am middle aged.  I do tend to like to have fun and be outgoing and the chicas do sense this.  Many guys I hang with get freebies (many are younger) or have a rule of never paying more than $80 for an all nighter.  Most of this happens outside of AB and CC.  Many guys are afraid to try other places.

I would imagine that many cabbies, waiters, door guys, bartenders, etc. are fucking many of these chicas we pay for free. If I was Mexican and had one of these jobs, I would be doing the same thing.  Guys are guys and are always looking to score.  At least these guys are working. I see many of these loser type boyfriends (and who are closer to their age) walking with these chicas and it looks like they don't work.

That's why I never feel bad when I negotiate because someone is getting the same pussy for free. Chicas fall for some of these "loser" local guys and take nights off to be with them. No wonder why I expect to see chicas working and they are nowhere in sight.  Even Saturday, the big money night in TJ has many of my favorites missing.

Saturday nights in the smaller bars definitely have lot's of chicas missing. Strange because it's their big money night and lot's of guys are there wanting to spend their bucks. It's probably date night for them and their boyfriends. Somebodies getting the pussy for free so if it's not free it might as well be discounted. I love negotiating as long as it's quick and simple. If it get's too complicated or crazy then it's the wrong bar chica anyway.

Juan

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