Actually,,,there are two  Calientes close to the border.  The other one is just to the right of the Yellow cab area just as you cross the second set of gates and actually get into TJ.
The thing is, there's also a pharmacy across the street from that one too.

when you first cross walking into Mexico, you go through one turnstile. Then you have two choices of turnstiles; go straight to the yellow cab area or make a right turn.
The Internet chicas meet you at the curb across the pharmacies directly across from the turnstiles on the right and the Caliente book is to the left of the turnstiles and across from the pharmacies. When you make the left turn, there's a parking lot.

...and certainly not typical.  I feel your pain but think that you could have dealt with this better.  Let me tell you about an experience I had.

In the early days of her internet career, Rosalba stood me up twice in one day because she had a "high roller" decide to keep her past the scheduled time.  She called me when she was 30 minutes late and promised to show up within the hour.  An hour later she cancelled altogether.  

I was pissed and she tried to make it up to me but I told her I would never wait for more than 15 minutes for her again unless she called me beforehand.   I told her that she needs to realize that her professional reputation is much more valuable than easy money and there was no excuse for not calling a regular client (a "special" friend, no less) as soon as she knew that she could not keep her appointment.

A year later, as she was lamenting to me about a particularly bad day in which she had two regulars no-show as well as missing one appointment with a new client herself, her approach was to insist that she showed up and somehow they did not connect so that she is not at "fault".  To give credit where it is due, she was able to get away with this because she became extremely reliable.

The point of my post is not to bash Rosalba, but to emphasize that any provider has a responsibility just like we do, to show up on time.  If they are unreliable, their reputation needs to reflect it.  

I would have recommended that you talk to the chica that did not show up before you submit this post which basically gave all the honest and reliable chicas in TJ a "purple eye".

If you could not reach an agreement with her, then her name would have been appropriate to post.

There's something very odd about this site.  First of all, the contact person is [email protected].  Is this the same "third-person" papi who posts on the SDboard?  Second, if you go to Tania's ad, you come across thumbnails for Rosalba and Jazmin.  If you click on either of these, instead of an ad you get the following message:

"If you found her through the internet,
and have developed a emotional dependency with her,
and want to know why she has been inactivated,
then write to [email protected]. 
Leave your heart above the border.
Do not believe that she really cares about you.
The only thing that she cares about is:
$$$$$$$"

WTF is that all about?