Damn these ladies are financial trainwrecks. And bad drivers. Back to back weekends I have run into ladies that have had accidents with their cars. Both claim to have no money or credit cards. One of them is a 46 yo. What planet are these ladies from.
One I had seen once. The 46 yo I havent even met yet. For all I know she could be a dude. She hasn't directly asked for money but she sure is hinting. SMH.On the plus side a 33 yo brazilian came over Saturday. Great in bed. 400 for 2 hours.
This is to be expected that most of these POT SBs are under a lot of financial duress primarily when it comes to rent and car payment/repair issues. What we gripe about is predominantly also the very reason that we get laid on that site!
Check this out! You know what's a worse kind of trainwreck? Hmmm?! I have seen profiles of two SBs very recently who are currently pregnant who will be single mothers. They are looking for SDs to fill in financially for those loser and long gone baby daddies, all the while promising that they will be very good to the sucker SD once the babies are born. Voila gents, you can be both a sugar daddy and a sugar grand daddy! Unfcuking believable! SMH!!!
After just a few days trawling on SA, it is clear to me that a lot - most - SBs are not in the best of financial states. Many say this themselves straight out. Others can be inferred.
You would think a lady would have enough brains not to bring the drama on before we even met. If she can't come up with the full $500 deductible I know rent is going to be the next issue in a weeks time. And so on. No thanks.
The good thing about college students is that they live on school loans and possibly parents. Their trains have not completely come off the track, yet. I try to look for ladies who are not totally desperate. Desperation leads to multiple SDs and unsafe behaviors. One could low ball a desperate girl but that might not always be best.
If they are truly post grad or serious under grads at a proper and accredited college, there will be less penchant for melodrama unless they are genetically BSC! On the other hand the ones who attend community colleges merely for the sake of it and just drop out willy nilly or change their major, are not worth to be considered as a legitimate college SB.
The true college SBs come with their own set of issues which mostly relate to school work, exams, finals, etc. Yeah, they may also have the tendency to hook up with a cute college boy once in a while or just give it up during drunken stupor but I find them to be more even keeled and saner than younger SBs who are poorly educated with a whole host of troubling socioeconomic issues.
It may take a while, some good luck, some leg work vis a vis quasi courtship and some elements of mutual attraction based both on sapiosexualism plus reasonable financial allowance to land such a unicorn but they're worth it outside of dating one IRL. Fcuk! I wish I that had gone into academia because I have the tools in my skills set to slay this type!
The college SBs are involved in their education and having fun. Picking up a few extra bucks while doing something normally forbidden, such as screwing an older dude, is right in line with the freedom they are enjoying and that's one of the big reasons they went to college in the first place. My current college SB is a perfect example. She has scholarships and parental support and a part time waitressing job. She's making it on her own. When I visit her it's all about some sexy fun and some extra pocket money. We both love it! OTOH, a 25yo SB I met last summer was nothing but drama. She kicked her worthless BF out of the house, her child was taken by CYFD and now she's working to get the kid back and needs money just about everything. Sheesh! Who needs that kind of baggage? Yes she was a great fuck for a few times, but I dropped her before her demands became too insane.
Yes, that's a big clue, but not always entirely correct. Since I never play in that age group maybe some of you more age indifferent mongers could weigh in on this for me. But I think some of the older SBs are simply lonely women who want some sex and are tired of normal dating. I guess many are indeed financial train wrecks, but some may have their shit together.
I tested the 40+ age SB pool and was disappointed. Arranged a M&G with a fairy attractive 45 yr old blond from Europe for dinner at a wine bar. When I saw her face to face (she arrived in a Mercedes) I realized she was closer to 55. The convo was mostly about how her ex had screwed her over, one son was estranged from her, the other was going through rehab and was moving in with her, she was tired of working so hard, etc. Then she went on to tell me I was missing out on truly meaningful relationships by only chasing 20-somethings. LOL...
Before we finished our entrees, I asked for the dinner check, paid it and wished her good luck, then bailed.
Never again. Back to meaningless 20-somethings!
I had a date a few months back that was with a 40+ that actually looked like she was in her 50s. The date started fine but quickly devolved into her ranting about politics. Killed whatever potential there was when she started talking about Hilary and Donald. I couldn't get out of there fast enough.