Do any of you SDs ever tell any of your SBs of this board, or of TER in general? Do they know your board name?
Would you see them being on here as an invasion of your space, or do you think they could learn a thing or two? (Like not blabbing about stalking guys on SA, for instance.) I don't think I've ever seen a post on this board from a SB, which is very different from other boards where providers contribute constantlyMr. Fisher, have you gone insane? You will find most SBs to be very self-righteous even though if in essence both Pros and SBs are engaged in the gamut which we simply summarize as P4P!
I will never , ever divulge the existence of this board to any SB and I am also very careful as to what I write on here by bending the actual events and identities to the extent that if "Chubby" refers lets the cat of the bag to of his SBs, I can then exercise the 5th on principium and my SD moniker to be one of the same!
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but even I am not that fucking dumb!!!
The only SB's that are going to find this boards are hookers, and I am just fine with that.
Fish, I guess you haven't been paying attention for the last several months since this board became the de facto Sugar Board, but SB's look down on hookers the same way that TER hookers look down on street walkers. Would you ever even dream of telling a TER hooker that you've been active recently picking up SW's? Of course not, you'd get put on every DNS list that exists. Well the same thing applies to SB's. Except for the SBs' that are hookers "pretending" to be SB's all the rest of the POT SB's that you will meet would run as far and as fast as their little judgmental legs would carry them at the mere hint you fuck hookers.
I believe in honesty and all that, but there are limits to everything. If asked directly by a POT SB if I have ever been with a hooker, I would most likely not deny it, but I would NEVER bring up the subject myself unless it's obvious a POT SB is a hooker in disguise.
It really depends on how the question is asked and the context. For instance, if a POT SB ever asks me as to whether I have "hobbied" (never ever has happened but if it does), I will put on the stupidest and the most baffled face which I can conjure up from my past acting classes in my youth!
However if it is just in the spirit of curiosity when passing time and something like a benign convo, I will (which I have done in the past) mention that after 53 years of life, a couple of divorces and some other "worldly" experiences, I have attended some "rodeos" in life, some of which were not for me. I may even elaborate to the extent that the prevalent lack of true connections with a Pro, prohibit my desires to go see one. In addition, I am truly single and I do have the patience to try out the sugar "dating" method. End of convo!
Keep in mind, men are terrible liars, and by that, I mean that women can see through us like a window, in most cases, anyways.
So, either these gals are really dumb, or they know we are also seeing escorts, and they choose to not let us know that they know, for whatever reason, and that reason is because they want to keep a status quo and keep the gravy train running.
Now, how do you stop the spread of them learning about TER from some source, let's face it, it's a hard thing to keep quiet, and when they do start popping up on here, then what
Although I do participate on TER (almost exclusively on TEH) as Princess Principium 
I do not currently see hookers. Therefore, I am not going to be caught in a lie per se other than I imply minimal past activities with Pros.
TBT, most girls do have hookerish fantasies (as they do with pretend rape role play) but sometimes they just like to partake in the outskirts of those realms because they do know, or feel that they will not like the real scenarios.
I have had one SB who often talked about getting it on with a hooker, but she was both very liberal by nature and also well traveled. She was also Bi who enjoyed the company of other women but had purportedly never participated in a F/F sexual interlude with a hooker. Strangely (and to my financial benefit) she had only been hooker curious during her travels in Europe and South America (maybe Thailand too, but can't recall) and she often commented about how inexpensive some of those really gorgeous hookers seemed to have been. I think she only knew of the SW prices but who was I to set her straight lest I tell her about this TER world!!!
when I want to pay more for less time. 
I have Chinese walls between hooker and SB world.
My first SB was eighteen last year, fresh out of high school. Both she and her ex-roommate eventually became hookers working for different agencies. After they became hookers, I told them about TER and how to check their reviews. She burned out about 2 months ago after working for 8 months. Her ex-roommate became indie not too long ago. These girls have no idea how to manage their money. She told me she was making 25-30K a month, and yet after 8 months she was totally broke and had to bum 100 from me. SMH.
and was very firmly put in my place about it! There are lots of excellent reasons why the TER and SA worlds should not intersect. For one, if you help a SB turn into an escort and she gets busted, you are the one liable to be charged with promoting prostitution. I have had exactly one lover I met as a SB on SA who was so active and eager to make money she was considering other forms of sex work including webcam work and escorting. I did talk to her about all those sibjects including TER. But that's the rare exception and I tread real carefully these days and try to keep these worlds separate.
SBs look down on pros and vice versa. If a SB knew that you had seen pros, she probably would drop you like a hot potato. I strongly recommend saying nothing.
I've not and am pretty up front with the SBs I have talked with and met that I need to keep my life outside the SB/SD relationship private and, to me, that includes the hobby. I've not had an SB relationship go deep enough to cross that boundary fortunately. Maybe I am good at keeping the wall of separation up or maybe I just lack relationship skills; either way, I think it is best to have some boundaries given my marital status.
When are you going to dip your toes and other things in the SB water?
For one thing, I've got a bevy of regulars whom I enjoy, and don't have enough green to expand beyond right now.
For another, I'm not yet sure this whole SB/SD thing is what it's cracked up to be. The best I can see is some pretty good deals, but I'm getting pretty good deals already from some long term favs of mine, so what's the point?
On the downside, the lack of professionalism that I see recounted on this board gives me pause.
I do find reading about this interesting in a detached way, at least
The grass just appears to be greener on the other side of the hobby fence. There's definitely less leg work with a hooker ATF, although I may be quite naive on this notion as my hooker experience is very shallow as compared to many preeminent members on here!
Quite frankly, the fact that I never found a hooker who was attractive enough at least in my eyes in that 300-500 price range for me to make a strong play for ATF status and OTC activities, says something more about me than the hookers. I am sure that I am one of those, "pleasure is in the hunt" type of creatures in the manosphere who's goggles see things in a rosier light when I chase a SB as opposed to when I used to book with hookers. That said, in a way which disproves my own theory, I had met quite a few FBSM girls who I would've easily ATF'd if they were avail for FS. Again, I wonder if it is a pleasure and the thrill of the hunt thingie or what not, but I usually had found the 200 massage girls (not AMPs) a cut or two (in terms of looks) above the average 300 hookers in my locale.
I will not dispute the psychogenic nature of my skewed opinions and views though!
Some are retired from it and some still work.
I do FS with all. It takes a bit of time before they get comfortable enough to go that way, but eventually just about all do. Of course I adjust their donation to account for the added benefit
Would you see them being on here as an invasion of your space, or do you think they could learn a thing or two? (Like not blabbing about stalking guys on SA, for instance.)
I don't think I've ever seen a post on this board from a SB, which is very different from other boards where providers contribute constantly.
Every board, BUT the SA board that is.
Hey I am open, but not stupid. Do you really think I want any POT SB's reading some of the 40,000+ posts I have made here? No thank you. lol