I have been messaging back in forth with a young lady. I suggested a meet at a bar/restaurant. She replied a couple of days later that she was a student and didn't have much time. Then she said there was a motel 6 near her! How should I proceed if I am interested in BCD time based on her photos?
I have met several SB's at a hotel for our first date.
Some POT SB's need to be reassured that they are not really a hooker before having sex for money, just like a hooker. Others aren't so politically correct and are find getting "right to it" without being wined and dined.
Everyone here has been with, and hopefully enjoyed themselves in the hooker world. Why should we be so queasy now? The worst that is going to happen is he makes a date, shows up at the hotel as agreed and finds out a pig is waiting for him instead of a unicorn, at which time he turns around at the door, gets on TER and finds himself a "well reviewed TER hooker" to pick up the slack.
The worst that can happen here, though, is NOT that she is ugly, but her BF and his weapon are. I think you're way more experienced than OP, who I read as this is his first ever meeting with any SB.
Motel 6? I dunno.
Some POT SB's need to be reassured that they are not really a hooker before having sex for money, just like a hooker. Others aren't so politically correct and are find getting "right to it" without being wined and dined.
Everyone here has been with, and hopefully enjoyed themselves in the hooker world. Why should we be so queasy now? The worst that is going to happen is he makes a date, shows up at the hotel as agreed and finds out a pig is waiting for him instead of a unicorn, at which time he turns around at the door, gets on TER and finds himself a "well reviewed TER hooker" to pick up the slack.
For what it's worth, I have actually met three other SBs.
Still, with that level of experience, I would not have met anyone privately first.
A guideline I use for me is to meet in public first. It's easier to walk away from than if she is in your room (or you are in hers).
Bottom line, your call. Good luck. You're likely ok. But, you can read about ripoffs all over the board.
and that is to say YES!!! lol
Additionally, you should probably get the subject of allowance out of the way which will prevent the awkwardness of you getting ten minutes away from the motel, only to get a text asking for a thousand bucks or something equally ridiculous
I would either let her set the price or even better suggest something reasonable with the lure of you becoming a regular source of income. Something along the lines of "Yes, that sounds great, and I am sure you have bills to pay, so how does a couple of hundred bucks each time we meet sound to help you out a bit? Hopefully we will like each other and end up seeing each other a lot"
I agree with meeting her and setting the price ahead of time but I would get a room at a different hotel near the Motel 6. It costs a little money but I worry about safety. I did this when this situation came up and it worked out great. It may have been unnecessary but I felt much safer.
In all cases except one, they were honest young women who really needed some money and were not shy about how to earn it. They were all a bit chubby, but doable, at last once. The exception was a younger SB 18yo, who was simply stunning, I mean she was a solid ten in my mind and had me salivating like pavlov's dog from the first photo. She agreed to meet me BCD on the first date and we agreed on a price, only to insist on double that amount when she arrived if I expected intimacy! I was unable to negotiate or get her to budge on the price. I caved, I paid her, and had one of the hottest fucks of my life. I'll never visit the little bitch again, but my point is, there was no other danger present in any of these scenarios than that posed by my own lust.
It all happened in a day. Sent her my private pics (a standard intro from me, I hate pick up lines). Got back a response asking what I was doing that night. She came over, we had a glass of wine, then I got in her. She was not a stunner like my favorite kinds, but she was pretty with a big ol booty, and the price was good.
The girls on SA that are really shooting for money, and essentially think of themselves as selective hookers, will try to get that money asap and the majority of girls I've met from there, we've had sex on the first date. God bless the sugar bowl 