i want 2 before a striper but im only 18 and im scare i just want 2 do it for the money but im still scare

If that post is for real......I suggest

1)  Go back to English class and learn to spell
A "striper" in most areas is a fish - related to the bass family

2)  There is a "d" on your keyboard?  Use it

3)  This '  thing back there is useful also in English

There are probably a few English majors on this board, but not too many.  And I am not.  But try to be a little more proficient in using your keyboard and the English language.

Please do not speak to a provider, striper or stripper in this style and manner.

That's cool, but if you are too scared to, then just let go of it.

Later if you still have the urge, you'll find a way.

Maybe some gal who got into stripping can tell you how to go about it.

Dear SweetBella,

I'm hoping I'm reading your email correctly. You want to become a stripper but you're only 18 and scared. You only want to do it for the money. Correct?

If you are scared and just want to do it for the money, I would not advise doing it at all. Most successful "exotic dancers" actually dance because they:

1. Like to exhibit their bodies
2. Find it thrilling to get the admiration of an audience
3. Find that combining business and pleasure can be quite fun and profitable.
4. Are not enamored of a 9-5 job
5. Enjoy dancing as an activity and the physical aspects of the work.

Of course there are a zillion other reasons, and of course there are strippers who only do it for the money. But are they happy? And why make yourself unhappy? No money in the world is worth that. You will soon HATE your job, not put much effort into it, and many other sad things can result from all of it. If you want to strip, do it with pride and gladness in your heart. But forcing yourself to strip just to get some extra cash - I don't advise it at all.

Now, if you think you still want to do it, but are just having general fears and trepidations, maybe you should get to know some strippers and ask them some questions. At least go to a strip club and see what it's all about. I did some stripping in my first year of college and I actually liked it. But this was 1975, and I was hired to do a few bachelor parties off-campus!!!!! But n.b. that I did not make it my life's work. I was in college and went on to earn multiple degrees. If you are planning to stay a stripper for a while, you'd better make sure you've got a good head on your shoulders. It's not an altogether "clean" industry and I believe girls get taken advantage of in many ways.

My final advice: Stay in school if you can, or get a straight job that you really LIKE. For now, anyway. Judging from your posting, learning English spelling might be a good idea.

Tough old titty,
the Love Goddess

Tough old titty indeed!  You are a youngster my girl.