Got a "Hi There" message on Seeking from a 30 year old. Nice looking face. But bare bones bio, so not much to go on. So I ignore it for a few days. Then what the heck, I give her my usual "I'm interested in BDSM." She says yeah she can do that, gives me her text number (that's a red flag when they give it up so quick.) So conversation is now by text, I ask her what she wants financially for 90 minute BDSM. She says $1300. I say we're in two different solar systems. She then asks what I can afford. I say $400. She counter-offers $500. I decline because I have other options and say good luck, basically. But we still kinda ping back and forth a long goodbye. Then I say okay, $500 for 2 hours. Cuz I though she said $500 for 90 minutes. But turns out she wants $500 for under an hour. Okay, easy to misunderstand. So we again do a very polite long goodbye wishing each other luck. It's a very polite conversation. And then she says, what the heck, I'm being polite compared to other guys she'll do the $500 for 2 hours.
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So she is scheduled to come to my place at 4pm-ish after some other thing she had scheduled. She contacts me about 4:30 and said oops, she's just gotten her period. I say I don't mind, come ahead, So she say's she'll be there in 15 minutes. Right about that time she texts again and says she's too nervous about the BDSM part. And waves off coming. I say okay, we can just do vanilla. But she's too freaked out to do it tonight so says she can do an hour tomorrow in the morning of just vanilla for $300. Okay, that's actually acceptable. So we are on for tomorrow morning ... or are we?
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She's been on Seeking since May, so that makes it less likely she is an obvious scammer. I mean maybe she really is that flakey. But now I am expecting some other shoe to drop. From $1300 to $300 is a pretty steep climb down. And I wasn't trying to push it. I kept trying to walk away. She's very polite though. Anyhow, too many twists and turns for me to predict the future on this one. Expecting a scam reveal at the last minute. But maybe she's just goofy.
Thanks for sharing the story, so far.
If you do eventually connect, I expect she will be one of those diamonds in the rough that rocks your world.
Or you could wake up in an ice-filled bathtub in a Tijuana hotel, missing a kidney. Either way, it's going to be interesting.
So....have fun!
Life is good
The Cat
Someone I just met, the age and the join date are similar in MPLS. If it is, she is in an open relationship and her boyfriend is supposedly down with her doing this and kinda has them crazy eyes, i originally spoke to her a few months ago and she asked for 500 per meet which I declined. She reached out again earlier this week again and I said no to 500 cause I usually play for around 300. She said great, let's do this and we did. Was a total wham bam thank you...you know pro like experience.
Is the word River in her SA name?
Yes, that's the one. She's a good time if you are just looking to get off.
So despite her scheduling for 9am she finally arrived around 9:50. But she was the girl in the picture. Nice spinner body. Clothes came off. Gave a BJ. She got on top. Then we switched to doggie. Then I did her missionary. I was pressed for time because she was late and I had other things coming up. So I finished quickly. She then headed out, total time about 20 minutes. But partly because I rushed it due to her lateness.
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Other than the short time, it was fine. She looks nice, does the usual stuff. So I can't complain about performance or looks.
The next day after we met, she pinged me asking if I still wanted to do the BDSM two hour $500 deal. I already had another regular coming that day for a BDSM session, so I said I'd have to check next weekend. (That second babe ended up rescheduling to mid-week.)
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So she pinged me again this morning, Saturday. She'll be coming over on Sunday afternoon. Looks like this babe is getting tied up! With pictures.
Looks like you landed on the better part of my prediction:
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She's either a (lousy) scammer, or a real nervous noob.
Thanks for sharing the story, so far.
If you do eventually connect, I expect she will be one of those diamonds in the rough that rocks your world.
Or you could wake up in an ice-filled bathtub in a Tijuana hotel, missing a kidney. Either way, it's going to be interesting. "
Enjoy the ride, glad you did not get the bathtub! :P
Life is good
The Cat
Follow up. Last Sunday at the appointed hour I pinged her to see if she was coming. Said she had a migraine. So no notice. But said we could meet on Friday. On Friday I asked to move it to Sunday. Today I asked if she'd be on time. She said she could only do less than an hour, original plan was for 2 hours. I said I was hoping for the longer time. She said her boyfriend said she should get $600 for 2 hours instead of $500. So I said let's call it a day.
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Just my rule not to renegotiate after a deal has been struck. That and cancelling twice with no advanced notice. And being 45 minutes late on the first actual meet. Just too many issues.
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She was cute though, had a nice bod, and was a good actress during sex.
I have one SB's who has a BF, and he doesn't know. I have one SB who is married, and he does know. I'd say over the years, maybe 30% of my SB's had some level of SO, not including other SD's.
Generally, I don't care as long as I don't get vibes that he may show up unannounced some day with an attitude (or a gun!). But as soon as I hear the "BF" is "managing" some or all of the arrangement dynamics like allowance, schedule, or specific activities BCD, then he's a pimp. And that's too close to the possibility that she is being coerced, forced, or trafficked, so I bail.
When I first stated sugaring and I encountered an SB in this situation, my "Captain Save a Ho" complex kicked into overdrive - with terrible results for me. I understand now that the best I can do is exit the situation ASAP.
Life is good
The Cat
I'd say a lot of them have guys on the side. So It's not a deal killer. There's always a concern, though. I'm also seeing a gal recently who's husband doesn't know. That's a little more risky, but she's been on Seeking for several years. So she must cover it up well.